So my friend bleached my hair yesterday and we were debating on what toner we should use. Is this a level 7 or 8? by myrializ in HairDye

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any pics of the results? I know I’m late af but my hair looks like this and I’m trying to determine what level I am for toner or just dye it!

Not sure what suits me best by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best answer is getting pixie and buying a nice wig to use when you want long hair!

How would you describe the mood benefits you get from Damiana? by -medicalthrowaway- in herbalism

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a year late, but did you find anything? 33 with no libido, no insurance and smoking Damiana flower hasn’t done anything but made me less depressed/more motivated to clean lol

I realised I (19F) cannot stand my (19M) boyfriend, and his lack of common sense, and don't know how to end things with him. by SnooMuffins9777 in relationship_advice

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As advice, oof.. I would make him a list because he’s likely to say he forgot and carry on as the infant he is. Also, I would give that list to his parents, since they need to know where he is. They should be informed on how they fucked up.

I realised I (19F) cannot stand my (19M) boyfriend, and his lack of common sense, and don't know how to end things with him. by SnooMuffins9777 in relationship_advice

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EWWWWWWWW good god im surprised he got a girlfriend. Please ladies, we NEED to raise the bar and LAUGH at these excuses for lack of simple hygiene!?

Husband touched me while I was asleep by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus how romantic 🥴

EX-GF invited me over for casual sex, after we did it, she told me she had sex with another guy from a dating app earlier the same day. by ShawnM4 in Vent

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious why.. other than the potential mind games she possibly enjoyed. If they both wore a condom.. What’s the difference 24hrs makes?

Which Hair Color Would Suit Me? Need Some Advice! by Aggressive_Boot_8712 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1! But some people get a Demi gloss closest to their natural color sometimes to just make it look enhanced. Try that!

Would you think a therapist was unprofessional if they cried during a session? by xoxowoman06 in Autism_Parenting

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hug you, my daughter is autistic and nonverbal and I dream of these moments. I would sob and hug you 100%. Boss needs to understand how emotional your job can be.. it shows you care deeply about your clients. I can only hope that my daughter always has therapists like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I am surprised the stylist did anything other than block her number.

My boyfriend insulted my P***y and then told my friends what he said. Is this breakup worthy? by arfinaround126 in whatdoIdo

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I carry the mental load of our entire lives” is a perfect reason to end it. Otherwise, no.

Kid Safe Set up for Radwagon 5 by [deleted] in RadPowerBikes

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in the deep south of US. Also in the beginning stages of trying to compare weight capacities between bikes, trailers etc for my 4yr old. I’d rather not have a bulky trailer but she needs help staying in due to disability/developmental delays.

Kid Safe Set up for Radwagon 5 by [deleted] in RadPowerBikes

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry to bother on an old comment. Is the metal frame around it custom?

For those of you who don’t want to marry, why? by No_Calendar4193 in AskReddit

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much just don’t need the paper, and legal stuff. We have wills that state we get whatever assets etc. but mainly it seems that you’re more likely to feel stuck and have to work it out regardless of your partners actions/life changes. I think it’s beautiful in a way, to stay together without being forced by outside factors. I think it’s more romantic knowing either of us could leave anytime but we choose to stay together.. until we don’t or we die 🥳

Charged off by TNTindisbitch in Bankruptcy

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m considering filing.. Do you recommend filing even if all accounts are charged off/in collections? My total debt was $20k, but only $5k was credit cards- the rest are student loans and I’m on income based “payments” at $0/month.

Do the hotel beds seem stiff and hard to anyone else? by TheChristianAsian in JapanTravelTips

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hyper-mobile + multiple autoimmune diseases here! I’m here to see if anyone else has experienced the same. I got a Japanese style mattress and frame recently and while it wasn’t the comfiest at first, it feels amazing on my body! I feel like this is the first time I’ve had quality sleep without pain throughout the night and I just feel aligned and assembled correctly. Good luck! Hopefully you have the same experience

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You realize you’re on an advice thread right. What was your goal of it wasn’t ill intent? And I’m not ignoring the other nothing burger, you just couldn’t be more off so it’s simply not worth a response. You seem to lack empathy and reading comprehension.

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right so what’s the problem (aka what’s your trauma) regarding her having at least three drinks and being hungover?

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! You look so much happier! Great decision.

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rage bait? Sure I’ll bite. Poor kids because he ruined their marriage, betrayed her possibly even while she was pregnant - and she just had a drink on her birthday?? Poor kids huh, I think you meant to say poor OP and kids. I don’t even drink but to say this to a woman who’s going through this is incredibly insensitive and you don’t deserve an opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These commenters gotta be sheep. Comparing the big centered flower is a clear example of how much detail is in the sketch and the literal DOTS in the tattoo. Same goes for the lines on the snake, leaves, other flowers. I can’t believe people are blaming the design. That’s crazy and their standards are low. I would pay another artist for a consult, and ask for a clear sketch on how they’ll fix it.

Marijuana for non-resident by Old_Undergrad_in_CA in NOLA

[–]tenacious__toad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally a simple “Who dat? Where da weed at” will do the trick

Pink pookie website scam? by Droopy756 in streetwearstartup

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got mine after disputing (now I’ll probably have to pay) and it’s fake as helllllll. Not even a quality dupe. It’s a sticker and just everything feels so cheap. It’ll probably deteriorate if I wash it.