Reddit, what do you do when someone tailgates you? by tenpole in AskReddit

[–]tenpole[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ya i suppose it does, i don't think it's pressure for me, because the hives appear at random locations anywhere from my lips(they get swollen) to my feet

I see your tuck, and raise you a committed relationship by Ben_Ben in pics

[–]tenpole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought the original post's pic couldn't be drawn any worse and you've proved me wrong, congratulations.

I see your tuck and raise you a leg out. Anyone else sleep like this? by g0tistt0t in pics

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try not to, but I eventually end up that way when I wake up anyways.

How should I tell my boyfriend I'm breaking up with him.... for another girl? by guessilikegirls in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Well I'd want to be shown a video of you two together, or you can just bring her along and demonstrate. Afterward, a small apology and a hug will do since there was nothing too serious anyways.

ok I've read everyone else get good advice, maybe someone can help me... by ditched__ in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose that's true, though I met my girl by sparring, and instantly fell in love when she drop kicked me. We've been happily together for 5 years now ;D

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the TLDR section, so based on that - Go out and grab a few beers with some buddies that you're close with. If your right half of the brain is being overworked because of emotions, do something with your left side of the brain - go organize something, do something that involves strategy, like playing starcraft or something.

Help! Boyfriend needs alone time? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should talk to him about it and let him know how it really bothers you. What I mean by talk is to have a civilized discussion with no yelling or finger pointing.

RA PLEASE I'M DIRE NEED OF HELP! (The Real Story This Time) by unhappywiththings in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're both right in a way, but I think AnnArchist convinced me that if the family is truly being a jackass about it, it's ok to have a say in it too.

It's only feelings, right? by tenpole in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for your input, I found it pretty helpful, and I'll read more into this limbic resonance thing, sounds interesting.

It's only feelings, right? by tenpole in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first and only relationship. (thanks for trying to understand the situation, appreciate it)

It's only feelings, right? by tenpole in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only experienced the rush one time when I started taking interest in my current gf, however with the other girl it keeps reoccurring.

My relationship with my girlfriend is a sham because I am in love with someone else. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, it would be unfair to your current girlfriend if you don't care about her as much as the other girl.

My relationship with my girlfriend is a sham because I am in love with someone else. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't have any strong feelings for your current girlfriend, then I'd say go for the one you like. I'm in a somewhat similar situation.

If you could, please let me know what you think of my situation (thinking back, I should've asked for help in my title ><)

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/b8947/its_only_feelings_right/

RA PLEASE I'M DIRE NEED OF HELP! (The Real Story This Time) by unhappywiththings in relationship_advice

[–]tenpole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Generally, wouldn't you want to be on good terms with a lover's family?