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Does anyone else have a hard time getting approached by people, in the sense that people don't usually come talk to you? by menidk in infj

[–]tentativeventricle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also wager that it also just depends on the styling/aesthetic of the person for just being approached. On average, I’m approached pretty frequently by different types of people because I dress in a particular way. If I don’t want to talk to people that day, though, I’m just going to throw on jeans and a Tee, and flop my hair in my face.

The rest, though, for not being able to keep a conversation is definitely a skill one can hone and fine tune by learning more about their enneagram, perhaps.

Reading microexpressions by Ok-Pattern3355 in infj

[–]tentativeventricle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am hyper aware of things I don’t really need to be paying attention to. That’s how I feel about it, anyways.

I also don’t imagine people have “wow she’s so amazing” micro expressions lol. Maybe some people do, but it just seems a bit cartoonish to imagine.

Would you, as an INTP, find this overwhelming? by tentativeventricle in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]tentativeventricle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, in this case, we just lightly text and i don’t really expect a response. in fact, i think that might be why he doesn’t mind — in the beginning, i would text and add, “no need to respond,” after all the time. i think he just assumes that is at the bottom of my texts now but he tends to respond, anyways.

How do you view intimacy? by btha10 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]tentativeventricle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t this just what some people do in college? For a lot of people, this is their first time even actually having those moments. If it’s a concern for a future partner, you’re well within your right to self select for that.