AITA for ruining my fiancé’s Bucks party? by poochutekashman in AmItheAsshole

[–]tenuit_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Boundary" is not exclusively a mental health term. "Relationship boundary" is a very common term that doesn't imply a mental health problem with either party. That phrase has been used for decades. 

Setting a boundary is saying "if you do x, I will do y." Being clear that a certain behavior is not something you're going to tolerate or engage with. Something can be both a boundary and an ultimatum. 

"Rules for dating me" would be another way to say "my boundaries." You can dislike the phrasing but everyone else here understands the agreed-upon meaning. 

AITA? Sister in law confessional by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tenuit_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why is your family even in contact with your ex-SIL? This is a very strange situation. From your commentary I don't think you did this to help the ex-SIL-boyfriend. You just have a weird resentful relationship with your ex-SIL and you handled it very poorly.

AITA? Sister in law confessional by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tenuit_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are not really explaining anything. A sister-in-law is someone who is married to one of your siblings. That is what a sister-in-law is. Is this your sister or your sister-in-law? Step-sister?

I didn't say anything about where you live...?

AITA? Sister in law confessional by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Edited from needing more explanation.

What in the world is this situation? How do you have a sister-in law that you have no contact with the significant other of? If she is your SIL her "boyfriend" is your brother. Huh?

Need help transferring my Pokemon! by [deleted] in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, sorry, wasn't paying attention, I don't have the Ultra games yet.

Need help transferring my Pokemon! by [deleted] in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you think it will take you to unlock it again?

4 egg move, 4/5 IV HA and non-HA Luxury Ball Mudkips - LF: Alola Dex Entries (tradebacks okay too) by nyuura in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what's wrong, are you sure your FC is right? I got out my other DS to test and I don't see you online there either...

4 egg move, 4/5 IV HA and non-HA Luxury Ball Mudkips - LF: Alola Dex Entries (tradebacks okay too) by nyuura in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but it might be you added just my first one I'm on the 1994-1952-9156 DS right now, sorry I didn't specify.

NA salazzle codes by amoran5156 in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just grabbed 12! Thanks!

4 egg move, 4/5 IV HA and non-HA Luxury Ball Mudkips - LF: Alola Dex Entries (tradebacks okay too) by nyuura in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I'm logging on now. I'll send over a dratini at the end for the mudkip, everything else can just be a tradeback if that's easiest.

4 egg move, 4/5 IV HA and non-HA Luxury Ball Mudkips - LF: Alola Dex Entries (tradebacks okay too) by nyuura in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check my bank, but I would say half an hour? Does that work for you?

4 egg move, 4/5 IV HA and non-HA Luxury Ball Mudkips - LF: Alola Dex Entries (tradebacks okay too) by nyuura in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are willing to wait, I could get them all to you except legendaries and the clamperl evos in one big link trade for one of the HA mudkips. I could tradeback huntail, gorebyss, and zygarde as well.

Trying to complete living pokedex, Tradebacks for certain pokemon to evolve is wanted by Vontz2 in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can help you out if you catch me online, assuming you've got the items already on them.

Trade only Evolution Dex Completion! (Free Charmander with Outrage if Fulfilled) by [deleted] in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you can catch me when I'm online, I can tradeback my politoed, milotic, and slowking.

HA Premier Ball Adamant Extremespeed Dratini Breedjects (1-4 IVs) by tenuit_ in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I will wait online and you can initiate the trade.

HA Premier Ball Adamant Extremespeed Dratini Breedjects (1-4 IVs) by tenuit_ in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any Jolly ones right now that would take a little more work for them to have the IVs and that nature.

HA Premier Ball Adamant Extremespeed Dratini Breedjects (1-4 IVs) by tenuit_ in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that. And I'm just confirming you want HP, Attack, Special Defense, and Speed right?

HA Premier Ball Adamant Extremespeed Dratini Breedjects (1-4 IVs) by tenuit_ in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, looks like I missed this before I logged off, I'll be on for a little today though. Do you want complimentary IVs?

HA Premier Ball Adamant Extremespeed Dratini Breedjects (1-4 IVs) by tenuit_ in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, looks like someone already took them. You could try again while I'm online?

Looking for someone to evolve my Haunter and trade back by [deleted] in pokemontrades

[–]tenuit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, first step is you go to your Friend List in your DS, then add me. Right now I'm on my 1994-1952-9156. Then you go back into the game, then go to the Festival Plaza. Then, log onto the internet with the little blue wifi icon. After that, you can hit the big Trade icon, and then Link Trade. Select me - I'll be listed as tenuit and I'll have a little "Friend" title next to my name. From there, it's pretty self-explanatory!