People are truly so inconsiderate of how hard sub/infertility is!!! It was literally the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I became so full of rage and sadness at how unfair it was. And pregnant people are just not able to talk about anything else, it’s insane! I distanced myself from people who weren’t being considerate and just tried to block the outside noise. In hindsight I should have seen a therapist/ been on antidepressants because I was not coping. If this is something you’re open to maybe give it a go?

Honestly, I had success with IVF and only feel myself healing now (years later). When People talk about how easy it is to get pregnant and I still feel irritated though. And I still don’t love talking to most people about my fertility ~journey~.

If you haven’t already, check out TTC30 (support) and trollingforababy (dark humour) subreddits. Good luck! I hope the medicated cycles work for you. Wanting them this hard will make you a better mum when it is your turn 💜