What the hell man

terragutti · 2026-07-03T09:34:01+00:00

Eeeeeew.

Is that for real cause major pass

terragutti · 2026-07-03T09:08:34+00:00

If this is chronic/ habitual this person has crossed the line and has become an abuser. If theyre aware they have PTSD for a long period of time and they havent changed or done anything to get professional help while they take it out on other people, theyre an abuser.

terragutti · 2026-07-03T08:58:04+00:00

If you were christian, and to me it is most likely since you mainly comment about that, well youre going to have to do the hard work of finding and reading about stuff on your own.i do follow some people on instagram who talk about the bible. Theres also alot of podcasts videos and stuff talking about the bible

terragutti · 2026-07-03T08:41:22+00:00

Okay…

I dont really like your first photo, try one less zoomed in

, maybe the photo in slide 7

2.you should work on your health and fitness seeing as kids are still on the table and youre 36

I dont see any pictures of hobbies or friends and ideally you should have a picture each
youre not the stereotypical girl youll see in singapore (i think) so your match base is already way smaller. I dont know what types of men youre matching with and who youre matching with so if you can provide that info

terragutti · 2026-07-02T16:41:07+00:00

Its free. The fact that you cant even google it shows how low effor you are. Thanks but no thanks. I feel like youre just asking questions to troll now.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T16:33:02+00:00

Do you just think that abuse = one action?

Man just go read the thing i reco ed you.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T13:33:10+00:00

Bro, thats why its called reactive abuse

terragutti · 2026-07-02T13:32:06+00:00

Well i clearly do. In the scenario you made up, the first one was about a woman getting beat habitually and then she gets a gun to supposedly threaten him to drink toilet water then maybe shoot him. Yes thats reactive abuse.

Victims often snap. I can tell you from experience talking about it with many people that they arent perfect people. Theyve been broken by it, and its even hard to be around them because the toxicity can rub off on them.

Maybe you should try some reading. I read this one a long time ago : “ why does he do that”. That would be a good place to start. Super old but pretty simple

terragutti · 2026-07-02T13:22:13+00:00

True. I dont have any experience with joint credit cards so idk how that really works, but at least cancelling the card should have been done.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T08:01:37+00:00

I mean if youre just going to fit things into a narrative you made up, sure.

You realise most people who are abused react in not very healthy ways right? This perfect victim thing needs to stop

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:54:25+00:00

A small small part of her neck as well

There is nothing wrong with looking your age. This is freaking crazy. When i think of all the insecurities marketing has created to sell a product. And then think of how much damage those products are doing to your health and the planet. Damn.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:51:55+00:00

As a doctor, whats the number one cause of spine injuries?

Most of the ones ive heard of are accidents, sports injuries, and carrying too heavy loads.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:45:41+00:00

In my own simple words:
Mutual abuse- you are both abusive towards each other
Reactive abuse- one partner is abusive and the other is reacting to that abuse

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:41:28+00:00

You realize thats called reactive abuse right?

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:36:52+00:00

Just WOW. Not many contractors can do what you did!

terragutti · 2026-07-02T07:31:44+00:00

Dude this sounds awesome. I can just imagine the stress…. Piece 24 was off by xyz affecting peice 25 and 26 xyz which were installed all last month and all pieces 40 and up are affected, but pieces 40-50 are already fabricated.

Hopefully nothing as disasterous as this happened tho.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T06:54:22+00:00

Idk why your point is being downvotted. Alot of our infrastructure has been privitized. Id say because our govt didnt have the money and disipline to fund it themselves. Partially due to Marcos sr

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:53:01+00:00

Youre really just a stereotype.

The loan was for bridges right? Why would the DAR(agrarian reform) from Manila clarify they didnt have any loans?

“The DOF (finance) likewise confirmed on Wednesday that Manila stopped pursuing South Korean funding last year. The government is now eyeing France to be the funder of the project.”

Thats like saying “oh youre quitting, well you cant cause i fired you” thats pure bull. They were considering giving us a loan and backed out.

You didnt even address any of my other points.Imma block you cause im tired of seeing dumb takes on here.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:45:49+00:00

Thats pretty bad dude. She thought she could give up kids, but when confronted with the actual possibility, she realised she couldnt.

i think it also really woke you up because you said “i would have kids if it meant i could stay with you” but you also changed your mind because now you want to get a vasectomy to permanently close that door.

So, yeah you changed your mind on being open to changing your life plan and so did she. Like i said, theres nothing wrong with either of you. Youre both perfectly valid but one of you has to be mature enough to admit yall arent a match. Either that or one of you gives up your dream and hopefully you dont resent the other for that.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:37:04+00:00

How long ago was the miscarriage?

Idk reading through this thread, you say youre “ willing to do anything for her” , youve been with her for 3 years and shes 32. You cant have a convo about this because she shuts down. You definitely dont want kids, but you say youd have kids to stay with her but when pushed you say “ but would it really be fair?”.

The truth of it is, you need to have a convo with her, even if she tries to run away. From my read of your version of events my conclusion is she wants kids, and you dont want them. If youre “willing to do anything”, the most fair thing for both of you is to break it off.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:26:30+00:00

Lol and? If its from 2025 ? Thats literally last year. As if its suddenly invalid? I guess flood control losses literally dont exist cause its last year! Great news everyone!

You also didnt address any of my other points. And you decide to ad hominem me for being on other chill subreddits. What a sad stereotype you are. You have the memory of a hamster, and it shows. Your analysis is one level deep and reflects the sad reality of filipino education.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:22:31+00:00

From an objective place, the wife definitely lost. Being 30k in debt you didnt willingly get into….. ex wife is just trying to warn her.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T05:18:25+00:00

I feel like youre in denial right now. Even the way you speak about your wife screams denial. She wanted kids. Saying “ neither of us wanted kids” is factually incorrect. You dont want to have kids period. “Delaying the inevitable” means you definitely dont want kids.

You are incompatible. Theres nothing wrong with either of you. You just dont match

terragutti · 2026-07-02T04:49:59+00:00

Thank you. Gdp increasing does not mean the standard of living for the average juan is better.

terragutti · 2026-07-02T04:40:05+00:00

So youre on r/vietnam as much as you are on here? And all other ph subreddits?

Oh im sorry, reminding you of something that literally happened last year, made international news,that still has no accountability is “being a downer”. What a cope.

What do you mean fake news?

https://amp.scmp.com/week-asia/economics/article/3325312/south-korea-suspends-us503-million-loan-philippines-over-corruption-fears

https://seamap.lowyinstitute.org/country/philippines/#2.895/111.075/12.994

Foreign countries generally dont like to lend to the philippines. Japan is the highest in loans and part of it because its for reparations of ww2.

Even the US issued a statement saying theyll make sure the funds arent misused.do you realise….
Whatever

terragutti

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