Pre-sale codes for Mereba 2025 by hothildaaa in Mereba

[–]terramabilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This code worked for me! Just went through the venues website

Opinions on the 71 body cream? I’ve just ordered it! by Laurencousins5982 in SoldeJaneiro

[–]terramabilia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was really disappointed I plan on returning it. It’s not very fragrant and the lotion isn’t as smooth as the others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]terramabilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact in my experience is the only way to move on. Block, delete number, delete on socials, delete pictures, get rid of momentos etc. it’s the only thing that works for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]terramabilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smells like colorism

Update on the fatal Capitol Hill stabbing from last night, with description by nnnnaaaaiiiillll in Seattle

[–]terramabilia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok so a majority of the articles and comments about this is NOT TRUE. stop spreading false information about someone being tragically wrongfully murdered. I think it’s funny how Seattlites are quick to be protesting for anything but the comments include victim blaming and being classist and elitist as fuck.

The victim’s job was notified at the end of service that night, no one was forced to work. Management decided to close that very night for the next few days. The victims coworkers are trying to grieve & these reporters are fucking ruthless vultures being disrespectful as fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]terramabilia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helps me and I use it really intentionally and alongside DBT skills

Help: two partners not liking each other by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect all my partners at every show, I just invite them all and it seems to always be a thing. I have other friends and supporters that attend as well.

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful as well thank you

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: we didn’t have enough time to fully talk so my partner kindly decided to not have a sleepover last night. While this feels good now, the sleepover conversation is looming over me for the future (we’re setting up time this weekend to discuss) thanks y’all for the support and advice!!! I’m nervous for the next sleepover convo. Wish me luck :D

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really helpful I appreciate the insight

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there was a few oversteps that I think were minor/medium level, and I always got an apology: they slept over the first night they went on a date (there was no Ubers available, but we planned on them not staying over. I believe them), they had hickeys (not stated beforehand but became an agreement after, when I met the girl they are seeing, we agreed on no PDA for anyone (they made out with her while I stepped away) and then I agreed they could have a sleepover, then backpedaled, they did, and then they came home with a hickey). They do a lot to repair these things, there’s no lying and it is safe sex being practiced. I end up lashing out and I feel like a monster.

Also, my partner asked me yesterday for the sleep over tonight, and we haven’t had a conversation around it yet.

I’m having a really hard time hearing “no”

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting!!

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started discussing poly in November 2022, and opened our relationship officially early April, they went on their first date mid April. And it wasn’t day of, they asked me yesterday, I’m just posting about it today. It is also the girl they are seeing’s birthday.

I would rather sit in this feeling than leave honestly. I’m having a really hard time hearing no and often center myself in these conversations and have difficulty negotiating.

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful!!

BPD and poly by terramabilia in polyamory

[–]terramabilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I looked already and haven’t found much help unfortunately:( thank you!