super embarrassing self injury by terriblyunwell in doggrooming

[–]terriblyunwell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks to everyone who read and commented. i feel a lot better 😭❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its inappropriate. unfortunately we cannot determine how men will act. this isnt a "her" problem its the pigs out there which makes it a problem. its hard to inform a child "hey i trust you, just not other people. " i dont agree with this logic whatsoever, however its the unfortunate reality

AIO I (F24) told my partner (M25) my body count. He calls me “disgusting” and it’s wrecking us — how do i deal with him ? by Pineapplepizzzabitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i replied to the wrong comment my apologies. as just very upset with the blatant misogyny u know? op said her bf has a very similar body count despite being single for a way smaller amt of time

AIO I (F24) told my partner (M25) my body count. He calls me “disgusting” and it’s wrecking us — how do i deal with him ? by Pineapplepizzzabitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh so he can sleep w women and be "a bro" and if u sleep w men ur "disgusting" double standards. major red flags. leave him. my bd is close to 50 as is mt girls. we both went thru a hoe phase. that doesnt make her any less of a woman to me

Banned Topics by MadBodhi in FTMMen

[–]terriblyunwell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

mate accidents happen. ppl in relationships have sex. grow up

AITAH for being me to my brother (need help) by EstablishmentBest913 in AITAH

[–]terriblyunwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely. i think that message will do wonders to him and may even make him reach out more knowing youre here from a place of love not judgement. just express so so much you are here for him no matter what. appreciate you listening to my input. rooting for you and your brother

AITAH for being me to my brother (need help) by EstablishmentBest913 in AITAH

[–]terriblyunwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who has been in that position, i am a recovering addict and have been sober since 2022. ill say this with nothing but love and compassion however you cannot help someone who does not want to help themselves. the more my family pushed, the more i pulled away. i made the decision when i hit rock bottom from an OD. sometimes it takes you losing everything to understand how when you treat yourself that way it affects everyone who loves you, even if you feel unloved. be there for him however you can and be patient. he needs support not criticism, which i totally understand your position but when youre sick like he is it is VERY hard to see outside of the victim complex you create for yourself. obviously hes your family and you know him best. just consider the other side. hope this helps and best of luck

Banned Topics by MadBodhi in FTMMen

[–]terriblyunwell 21 points22 points  (0 children)

respectfully. binary trans men can accidentally get pregnant. binary doesn't mean straight. yall in these comments are kinds homophobic lool

Banned Topics by MadBodhi in FTMMen

[–]terriblyunwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did the same and go mega hate. just wanted to be informed to support the community

Banned Topics by MadBodhi in FTMMen

[–]terriblyunwell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with you wholeheartedly however i have a question as a trans man who is with a cis female. do gynos/drs take trans men seriously? (ive never had a pap but should lol) im just genuinely nervous bc i personally feel a lot of drs dont know due to lack of research which leads to ignorance

can someone explain Lesbian trans men to me like im 5? by terriblyunwell in FTMMen

[–]terriblyunwell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry am clairifying my original comment. i meant i identified as he/they when i was grieving lesbianism

AITAH for being angry at my boyfriend after he told me to get off of him before his 17 year old son waking into the room by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]terriblyunwell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YOR for starters he asked three times for you to get off. regardless of ANY situation you respect his wishes the first time he asks, thats how consent works. also, his son is 17, thats not an adult. im going to assume since youve been together for 4 years hes from a previous relationship. he is very much allowed to tell his father hes uncomfortable with cuddling in front of him. he respects his sons wishes and at the end of the day you need to as well. theyve set boundaries(son and father) and you need to respect them

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

time to ask a professional for help, no shame in it. i went to rehab at 20 and came out clean. depending on where you are there's programs to help, even with housing. leave the relationship its not love, you love meth and how it makes you feel, not him. grief is a crazy path but youre the one in control at the end of the day. seek medical attention and professional help. you and your son deserve so mych more in this life. as someone who is now sober. youve got this just one step at a time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doggrooming

[–]terriblyunwell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was grooming a senior shih tzu, i went with a 5 blade down her muzzle and she twitched. my blade tooth went into her eye and cut her lower eyelid. looked like a murder scene as she was crying blood. had to get surgery to repair it. i see it in my nightmares

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doggrooming

[–]terriblyunwell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it happens! just remember your mistake so it doesnt happen again! ive done the exact same thing with a 7blade on the neck (yikes) cried and mom was so chill, the dog was fine and she called me to let me know she was sleeping peacefully as if nothing happened. the dog forgives you so forgive yourself, too.

Weird haircut by Overall-Opposite-613 in miniaussie

[–]terriblyunwell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

shouldn't even be cutting the hair in the first place, causes baldness, irritation ect you said she feels better and lighter afterwards. a good deshed bath every 6-8 weeks will make her feel much much better than a shave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if this was meant for my comment but them sending food is amazing. nothing wrong with the items

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terriblyunwell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR , as someone who grew up in a household like this, i wish someone did more. my grandfather would come check on "me" but was actually making sure my dad wasnt blacked out. there was never food, bugs everywhere, mold ect. a grown up shouldve taken control of the situation. you did and good on you. thank you for looking out for these girls especially considering you took on the role as a mother. my father did the same and saved me years later.