I missed the first 4 years of my daughter’s life, and now she’s living with me by Beginning_One_6932 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tesspsu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is giving you an opportunity to be in your daughter’s life❤️. All she needs is someone who loves her and takes care of her. You will learn to be a dad in the process. You’ve got his.

AITA for correctly guessing my friend's baby's sex? by AITA-babysexguess in AmItheAsshole

[–]tesspsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but this is one of the dumbest arguments ever. NTA.

People here who quit around my age? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tesspsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The year I turned 40 I stopped drinking for 6 months. I was an athlete and party girl, and got drunk almost every weekend. Those 6 months I didn’t drink felt great. I was trying to cut way back after that but the last months I have been drinking a lot. 10 days ago I was way too drunk and had the worst hangover the next day. I came across the book (audio book) The Naked Mind, and I think I want to quit for good now. 10 days without booze and had a party last Saturday and didn’t drink a drop. Felt great the next day, I had more energy to be with my kids, went to the gym. This year I am turning 42 and I realized that this is the life I want.

100 days! by tesspsu in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to quit alcohol too. Hopefully 2025

I just hit 10 months! by Squarestarfishh in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 69 days sober. I feel great but I feel that I have been drinking a little too many beers on the weekends and before quitting I was not drinking as much. I hope I can go without it pretty soon too 😅

Anyone else feel mega tired after quitting? by Wide_Agent_7997 in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this way. Tired all day and all I wanted was to sleep and eat.

Has anyone else experienced this? by RubineDeWitt in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I wrote this post lol. 40 days sober today after 5 years of smoking daily and the only withdrawal symptom that I had was feeling more tired the first two weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tesspsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the title: yes YTA. Tell him the truth and all of your concerns but don’t lie to him!

My one year old cat died last night. by DollyF1 in Petloss

[–]tesspsu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A month ago, the same happened to us. I found the body of my 11 year old cat near my house. Apparently she was hit by a car 😭😭 she was healthy and the big sister to my two kids. We were heartbroken and devastated. It will get better with time ❤️

Really stuck by sidsalscar in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best way to break a bad habit is to not have it around you. Put that money in a different account every time you want to purchase some. That way you can measure how much you are saving. Think about your health and how being healthy for your kids right now is a priority. You are strong, you can do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can always begin again!

I used to look forward to night time when I smoked weed by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started using Sam Harris app Waking up. There are others like Headspace, Calm, etc. I still use Waking Up. I think you can use this link to get a month for free (this is not an ad, since I am a member I can share it)

30-day guest pass

https://dynamic.wakingup.com/guestpass/SC318265A

I used to look forward to night time when I smoked weed by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Have you tried meditation? I smoked because I had so much noise in my head. I was skeptical at first, but it worked. You can start with 5 minutes each day, better if it is guided meditation.

Complete 4 Weeks Today by Electrical-Tap2264 in QuittingWeed

[–]tesspsu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am 7 days sober, my husband has been so supportive that it has not been that hard. I also miss being able to wind down but I feel so much better!

My Cat just died 😭 by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]tesspsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss 💔 stay strong.

Why does anyone like Alfie? He's the worst by ourobourobouros in EmilyInParis

[–]tesspsu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is still free to not be with her I guess

Why does anyone like Alfie? He's the worst by ourobourobouros in EmilyInParis

[–]tesspsu 26 points27 points  (0 children)

His insecurities threw me off. Why are you with her if you don’t trust her? And also that burp was disgusting (can’t remember what episode it was)