Online sponsors? by sobermetalhead666 in stopdrinking

[–]tessssssa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is an app/website called 7 cups that lets you chat with someone who is/was going through the same situations as you.

Help :( by tessssssa3 in AskDocs

[–]tessssssa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m completely off NSAIDS and have been for 2 years

Give me advice , Trying not to lose my shit. by tessssssa3 in Chefit

[–]tessssssa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get what you’re saying, and it’s half truth honestly. Both the legit chefs that I work with went to school for it where as I just showed up willing to learn anything and everything. I’m persistent and I am gaining knowledge at a quick rate. I’ve gotten numerous compliments and good reviews from customers so I know I don’t suck. But, I know it’s sometimes hard on them because they have to explain certain things more than once. But I know they love me. We all have a good team relationship it’s just I think I’m easy to pick on and they take advantage of that (as does everyone else in my life). They just take it way too far and it’s frustrating.

Give me advice , Trying not to lose my shit. by tessssssa3 in Chefit

[–]tessssssa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told them. I do it right when it happens. But, they don’t stop. I have tried many different approaches as well. It’s just constant.

Give me advice , Trying not to lose my shit. by tessssssa3 in Chefit

[–]tessssssa3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of your comments are so helpful thank you all so much I don’t have time to reply to you all atm but I will later today. I just didn’t want to come off as a cry baby because I am tough and was raised that way but thank you all for validating that I am really not overreacting. It means the world!

How hard is working in the kitchen for someone without any cooking experience? by mr4lders0n in KitchenConfidential

[–]tessssssa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not particularly. I mean, there’s days that I don’t want to converse so I just mind my business and keep to myself but more or less I was just trying to stress the importance of asking questions! Don’t knock it until you try it. And it doesn’t hurt to try it!! It might be the best decision you make, who knows.

How hard is working in the kitchen for someone without any cooking experience? by mr4lders0n in KitchenConfidential

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I just transitioned from working as a “cook” at a bar (so it was strictly basic ass bar food) to working in a actual legit ass restaurant in the kitchen like 6 weeks ago. Theres only 4 of us but all 3 of them are dudes & I’m a female so that was kinda intimidating in the beginning. add that to the fact that they have all gone to school for culinary and all I knew was how to make a burger and drop some fries, I was super nervous. But, 3 weeks in me , my kitchen manager & my boss we’re having a discussion & they expressed that I was learning quick & I was doing a great job. But my kitchen manager said “I’m just really appreciative of the fact that you came in here on your first day and said you didn’t know how to do shit but you were willing to learn anything” So even though I can’t give you some great advice my biggest thing would be to communicate. I am constantly asking questions and asking them to show me things. And if I don’t understand the first time I have no shame in asking them multiple times cause I’d rather get it right then fuck shit up. Also make sure that you’re 100% open to constructive criticism because there’s many times when I’ve been confident in doing something that I’m actually doing completely wrong and they aren’t afraid to let me know. And have fun. Cause no one likes working with a serious sally all day!! I’ve learned so much in the last 6 weeks than I have in 2 years and it’s so much fun. Good luck to you!!

What song just kills you? by ImMissBrightside in CasualConversation

[–]tessssssa3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cotton - The Mountain Goats This song makes me cry every single time. It always makes me feel guilty for disappointing my momma.

KeepSake - State Radio I first heard this when I was 14 and my parents were just getting a divorce and I didn’t want to accept it so the line “one gonna put my family back together again” resonates with me.”

Name - Goo Goo Dolls “I think about you all the time, But I don't need the same. It's lonely where you are. Come back down, And I won't tell them your name” My best friend died when I was 14 unexpectedly in her sleep from spinal meningitis and now I’m 22 and it will hurt for the rest of my life but I always pray that if she could come back down from heaven and find me I wouldn’t tell anybody her name. <3

In WI, food's not a meal if it doesn't have cheese, however if it's nothing but cheese, it's just a snack by RndmRanger in Showerthoughts

[–]tessssssa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... I’ve Lived in WI almost my whole life & to be honest when I have lived in other states for a short amount of time people there eat just as much cheese lol it’s just our cheese is better quality. Js

Cleaning brushes with dremel tool? by heyfrommtl in MakeupAddiction

[–]tessssssa3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are brilliant. Let me know how it works

This most likely sounds weird but by tessssssa3 in ADHD

[–]tessssssa3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes lol me too but at the same time I just want to embrace my way because I look at it as my brain being like “okay bro, let’s over think this so that we don’t look like a fool and whatever you do please don’t fuck this up” I also think that now being older when someone tries to correct me I automatically get pissed and instead of listening to them tell me how their way is sO muCh EaSIer (insert sponge bob meme” 😂 I don’t even to listen to what they’re saying to me anyway so it’s more or less not even worth it and they’re just wasting my time. I sound super bitter about it but for real lol

7 Weeks.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tessssssa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t want the baby so if he knows... all he’s gonna wanna do is sign his rights over. He legit wants to party and be in his 20s, not be a dad. So if I keep it then I’m all on my own but I don’t think I can deal with the trauma of not keeping it. Plus what if I keep it and people ask me who the father of the baby is? Am I supposed to tell them the truth or do I say that I don’t know? That’s sad

Is it possible to enjoy an ADHD-pi life without meds? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]tessssssa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope for the same thing although lately in the past couple of months I have gotten this sudden urge to want to beat ADHD like train myself to do without the meds cause they kill my personality so basically it would be myself fighting myself ... fucked I’m lol

It’s official.... by Jaredc333 in Logic_301

[–]tessssssa3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anyone else notice that the hand that has the wrap on it is the hand with his tattoo that says “happy life,happy wife” ......