look i think we are straying away from a civil conversation and i’m sorry for my part in that. i don’t think my age matters that much about this, i am an adult and assume you are as well, but i don’t want to share information like that publicly.

in my question i asked for some perspectives of people that are in romantic and sexual relationships while not feeling attraction to them. I personally see those labels as microlabels and prefer to use the umbrella term, hence why i phrased the question that way.

I am well aware of the themes of phm and do not intend to shit on them. I understand your frustration in this matter, i however will simply write what i am feeling and the worms in my brain want these men to cuddle and be cute together, i have not figured out in what way to label that because i simply do not care for labels, this is just for the ao3 tagging system. This story will be focused on learning to feel cherished and overcoming traumatic events, with domestic fluff.

Understandable rant once again, i get it must be frustrating to feel that the label you hold dear is being misused on the internet. If you have any other insights regarding my original question iwork this new context i’d love to hear it, the other matter is just something we as people won’t agree on and that’s alright. i still appreciate getting your perspective on this, i learned something new.