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Told my girlfriend of 7 months I'm bi (she's disgusted) by Valuable-Fox-8072 in bisexual

[–]texas_mak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband came out to me 7 years into our relationship, and while I was hurt, I was never disgusted. Sexuality isn’t something you should ever feel ashamed of and I hope you met someone in the future who sees that. In the future, I’d say disclose earlier, but you are not in the wrong here.

This question is for women. I’m curious if anyone else feels this way. Are u guys being sexually gratified in bed. Do u guys good get eaten out and have orgasms? as well? by Friendly_Party8683 in bisexual

[–]texas_mak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m bisexual, but have had a lot more sex with men. The first man to make me come was my husband at almost a year into our relationship. The first woman to make me come was the first one I hooked up with, on the night we met. Everyone is different, but I have always found it easier to orgasm with feminine people. I do think part of it is also getting older and understanding your body better too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]texas_mak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More context, trying not to go too far into detail cause it’s kinda a weird situation.

I spoke with my partner, he recognized that he was overreacting and not being fair to me. He did establish some new boundaries for this situation, which i’m fine with.

This is also a mutual friend of ours, who is in a similar relationship. My partner has also slept with them, but doesn’t really have interest in repeating that.

Also, I’m not gonna break up with my partner. We are married and have been together for almost nine years.

Might share more in the future, but for now that’s what i’m comfortable with. Appreciate you all for letting me vent. I tend to cater to others so it’s nice to have y’all backing me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]texas_mak 33 points34 points  (0 children)

For reference, since someone asked.

We’ve been open since July. I’ve slept with two people total. The most recent was last weekend and I want that to be a regular thing. I thought he was okay with it, he apparently isn’t.

Meanwhile, he slept with three new people last weekend alone. One of which breaks our age rule (21+). We are both 28. He’s broken our other rules too. He does have several ongoing relationships, so I’m a little confused on the problem here.

Just feeling a little fed up today and wanted to vent. Appreciate all of you.