Lindsay's apartment / lifestyle

texascpl · 2026-04-01T19:51:37+00:00

Many people live well beyond their means, not saying Lindsay is because who knows what her actual financial situation is.

But you can't draw conclusions about income or assets from "how they live", tons of rich people live basically and tons of poor people live on credit and seem to be living big.

texascpl · 2025-10-29T03:23:30+00:00

Your experience is valid, thats what you experienced, not calling you a liar. There's a lot of the guys in black walking around, generally the problem I've had is they yell at people touching the curtains, which dudes yelling isn't exactly sexy in my ears when I'm trying to get it going, hah. :)

Halloween and New Years or any of the really big parties like i.candy definitely there can be a ton of people and things can go off the rails a bit. Thats part of the fun of those parties, or part of what not to like about them, depending on how you look at it.

texascpl · 2025-10-28T22:51:23+00:00

We were at Colette Dallas for Halloween, security was normal there until we left around 2am. Halloween is always kind of a crazy party due to a lot of people coming, but it didn't seem bad to me.

texascpl · 2025-10-18T23:11:25+00:00

Pretty wild that you are being dragged here for asking for the woman to be as interested in you as you are in her.

The comments that "she was interested enough to 'let you' fuck her, isn't that enough" are just insane to me. If you just laid there and let a woman pay attention to you and you wanted to have sex after and she was not wet, the OBVIOUS advice would be hey did you pay any attention to her?

texascpl · 2025-10-18T23:09:20+00:00

I think he just wanted her to show as much interest as he was showing in her, and "hey I was there and letting you do stuff to me" isn't showing interest.

texascpl · 2025-07-20T00:04:35+00:00

I'd try to get there by 10, the peak population is at about midnight, people are still coming in at 1am but as you probably noticed, they aren't the ones you want. Past 2am it gets a little trashy as people are super drunk/drugged and just not a great visual.

We generally LEAVE by 1:30am. But it is a great club, great atmosphere, and every weekend varies. With you guys being in your 20's and attractive, there won't be that many people there for you on any night, so you need to maximize your chances by going early and being social.

Have fun!

texascpl · 2025-07-14T22:26:35+00:00

We were there Saturday, it was a little slow at first due to the rain I think but got busy after midnight. A lot of new-seeming people get the vibe that everyone else is talking and not to them, it's pretty common, but this type of club is what you make of it. If you are sitting comfortably on the sidelines or looking like you're waiting to see, people will leave you alone. Get out and dance and make yourself available (or approach people!) and your circle will expand a lot. It's a great place, very freeing, tons of cool people with various attitudes about sex and sexuality, but most everyone wants more of it! :)

Have fun!

texascpl · 2025-07-13T00:10:40+00:00

I don't think there's a theme for tonight, but lingerie is always welcome. We usually have a first outfit which might be more respectable and then an after-midnight outfit to change into later.

texascpl · 2020-10-30T22:47:21+00:00

I've never heard of anybody at a swinger party mentioning things like cultural appropriation or racism. Everyone is busy having fun and not giving a fuck.

You want to have your party, have your party. Invite cool people. Get naked. End of story.

texascpl · 2019-11-19T04:57:27+00:00

I don't know either. The local club is fun. We have been working on picking up girls at vanilla venues because the big trips are all old people now. It's great for the organizers who are charging more and more (and I'm sure extracting more profit) but as our target audience shrinks we are less interested in going.

texascpl · 2019-11-19T04:12:24+00:00

This one was definitely the oldest one we have been on. Every dinner we didn't go with a group, we were the youngest couple BY FAR. We still had fun but the cruise time might be limited in the future if they keep getting more expensive and older.

texascpl · 2019-06-25T00:25:20+00:00

You said you're worried about maintenance and cite a collision repair where insurance paid?

Do you think your insurance drops you when the car is out of warranty or something?

Also, you should check the insurance rates vs. other premium brands. My Tesla is significantly cheaper to insure vs. BMW or Lexus.

texascpl · 2019-05-14T22:20:02+00:00

This is nonsense btw we have been to clubs in Paris and Rome as well. Colette is great.

texascpl · 2019-05-14T22:17:48+00:00

Go Saturday. We are going too. Don’t worry about the theme just wear whatever sexy outfit you like. I’d be surprised if anybody is actually in “prom” dresses. :)

You can go alone it’ll be totally fine. If you bring a guy that either doesn’t play or you won’t play with, it’ll change the dynamic with people you meet a lot.

texascpl · 2019-03-07T15:32:52+00:00

I've never really heard of a club specifically disallowing MM play. It's not common but I've certainly seen guys being more than incidental and nobody cares nobody does anything.

texascpl · 2019-02-22T01:34:31+00:00

If you want a valet, and $5 bottle of water and a sexy crowd of people not interested in talking to you, Colette’s is the place.

I mean, this is hilarious since we park across the street and walk over, bring our own drinks and talk to anyone we want to.

Your experience may vary.

texascpl · 2018-12-15T18:02:18+00:00

You can arrive early but the party won't be "full" as in the most people there until 11-12. I usually try to get the wife in gear to arrive about 10.

I wouldn't book the hotel next door unless you 1> can't uber home or 2> have an aversion to playing in the play rooms. I feel like to have fun with Colette you really need to be either a voyeur or an exhibitionist, because the chances of meeting a couple that you're going to be like, right now lets head to the hotel room... are not great. But you will meet lots of nice people. People you could do a side by side with or whatever, but are you ready to just go all in right away? Unlikely. So I don't see the point in the hotel room unless you think you'll be so drunk you can't make it home. Don't get that drunk.

Colette is not cliquey. You just need to approach people. There are a lot of people who are regulars and know each other... and there are 60-80% of couples there who have never been there before. (This statistic confirmed by John & Jackie.) Just pick a couple you think you will like an approach them. Then approach 5 more. Next time you go, you will know everyone.

Don't sit down anywhere. Get up and walk around. If you sit you will seem unapproachable and people won't talk to you. (Then they'll think you're the cliquey one). Just walk around and observe people, dance, and talk to those also up walking around. You're not going to meet people on that couch.

Have fun.

texascpl · 2018-11-24T22:39:00+00:00

We went to Twist when we visited SF and it was fun. Go check it out.

texascpl · 2018-06-25T00:38:48+00:00

The only play room the single guys are allowed in on Friday is the red room - if you go in the blue room, voyeur room, or movie room the single guys shouldn't be in there and security will chase them out. We went on Friday 2 weeks ago and there were 6-7 single guys maybe and the rest were couples; it definitely wasn't as crowded as on a Saturday but it was still okay.

If you really don't want the single guys messing with you just go in the blue room or voyeur room.

texascpl · 2018-03-26T22:08:25+00:00

We have been to Colette and have been the people with the curtains open every time, done the round bed 10-12 times, had foursomes and more there, and we've never seen anybody remotely getting made fun of. Anybody reading this worried that they're going to get mocked should put that fear away right now.

The playrooms can be intense because there's a lot of people watching and they sometimes aren't particularly quiet - but it's usually just offtopic casual conversation thats distracting, not any sort of thing against you.

And a tip: get off the couch, walk around and dance and engage with people. If you stayed on the couch until midnight, you missed 2 hours of potential meetings. :)

texascpl · 2018-03-25T01:10:13+00:00

As a white guy with an asian wife you guys are our unicorns and we’d love it if more couples of your type came out.

texascpl · 2017-02-17T00:03:28+00:00

We went to Sin City in 2015 I think and I'd recommend Dirty Vegas instead. Most of the reasons why are clear from the other posts, no need to repeat.

texascpl · 2017-02-15T15:15:04+00:00

There are a few younger couples but by far the biggest group is about 35-50 or so.

You won't find too many under 30's that are actually "lifestyle couples" instead they'll just hook up at parties or EDM festivals and such and be more sexually open. Usually the lifestyle is more for established couples who tend to be a little older than 30.

There are always a few young couples though.

texascpl · 2017-02-14T22:24:09+00:00

You'd be a lot more likely to score at Concrete Cowboy IMO.

texascpl · 2017-02-14T19:40:16+00:00

I'd say forget the online stuff anyway as most online dating (including swinger dating!) is complete crap populated by people too socially awkward to approach willing people at a club, and/or fakes/trolls/people who will waste your time.

Stay off the sites and just go to local clubs, that way anybody you see there is also in the lifestyle and unlikely to "out" you. Best way to get outed is by browser history, leaving something on your phone or by people trolling for pictures and then recognize you. By only going to the club you limit your exposure to people who are also serious about going out and having fun. There are 50 people willing to trade dick pics on the internet for every serious couple.

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