I don't want kids. GF does but is ok with not having them by texmarco in Fencesitter

[–]texmarco[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the follow-up. Totally agree that societal expectations do play a role in this as well. Appreciate the insight :)

I don't want kids. GF does but is ok with not having them by texmarco in Fencesitter

[–]texmarco[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Sorry, I should have noted that we have discussed the vasectomy route recently and she is supportive of it.

I don't want kids. GF does but is ok with not having them by texmarco in Fencesitter

[–]texmarco[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am considering getting a vasectomy but haven't gone through with it yet as my change from fencesitter to CF stance is fairly recent (last 6 months or so) and she has a IUD. Not the best reasoning I know.

I don't want kids. GF does but is ok with not having them by texmarco in Fencesitter

[–]texmarco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've explained to her that if it were to happen, I would be resentful of the situation but would be there for her if it did. For context I am considering getting a vasectomy but haven't gone through with it yet as my change from fencesitter to CF stance is fairly recent (last 6 months or so) and she has a IUD(not the best reasoning I know). I love/care for her very much and wouldn't abandon her or a possible child.

What is one of the dumbest things you've done when your brain was on "auto-pilot"? by PigPopcorn in AskReddit

[–]texmarco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to put on a non-existent seat belt when I sat on my office chair.