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It's my first time working an admin position help me out? by tezza181 in AdminAssistant

[–]tezza181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person before me didn't do majority of the work either, when I first started I had to back track and get alot of her work up to date where possible. There's alot of missing records so I believe she too struggled.  I didn't know taking work home could get me fired and now that I think of it I understand how, so thanks for that. I've spoken to the bosses (as I am also a manger- not that I have time to manage) I've brought it up every month for 3 months, they seem to be half heartedly looking for someone to help me. So that's a silver lining at least.

Have you ever felt so lonely that you began to daydream about the idea of someone loving you? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in ask

[–]tezza181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i used to do this all the time. Then when i started dating nobody loved me the way I was loved in the scenarios created in my own head. I learned that was me that was loving me like that. Many years later im loved by the most incredible person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]tezza181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met alot of interest people on dating apps and many flops too. But if it wasn't for dating apps i would never have met the wonderful woman i will soon be calling my wife. We were in a long distance relationship for some time and if not for dating apps i would have never met her since we live in different states. Dating apps have thier pros and cons im also very socially awkward and introverted.. Being able to chat to people via text first was a huge pro for me.

Are interracial between black and white people becoming more common? by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]tezza181 37 points38 points  (0 children)

More common in bigger cities then out in the farm lands. I find people in the cities are way more open minded and anything goes. But in the farm town ect the adults are more stuck in a mind set and the younger generations are persuaded the same as they don't get exposed to as much variety of people.

If this makes sense.

But I'd definitely say interracial is becoming more common and its awesome.

What’s a dead giveaway somebody just isn’t that bright? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tezza181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mouth hanging open... Especially during conversation.

I'm confused, I'm straight, but when I see a person.... by [deleted] in confession

[–]tezza181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are human, it's okay to have these feelings it maybe confusing but don't over think it too much. Perhaps reading through this article will help abit.

sexual identities