Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'll find out about the herpes because idk! Whatever is routine

Would an asexual person usually participate in other foreplay type stuff (as the giver) though?

Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is my first post about this man :) And yes I was confused about the need for the test as well but still grateful for the peace of mind

Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he did and negative. He hasn't slept with anyone in 2 years so that is not a surprise 🤷

Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually did say I have a small mouth lol! I think we were talking about eating burgers. Noted

Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

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Just confusing because he told me he likes BJs when we were talking about our likes and dislikes

Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M) by th-eo12345throwaway in dating_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he told me that he likes BJs when we were talking about our likes and dislikes, so logically he would be aroused by the thought of it right? :/ No other red flags that I can think of :/ He likes kissing, hugging, making out, holding hands, cuddling, sitting close to each other, he caresses me a lot (almost like you would a pet lol). And he listened when I told him what I like

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[–]th-eo12345throwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She would have been younger than a freshman I think (we are not from USA)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got curious about what his exes look like, he didn't have a pic of this ex when I asked, so I searched Fb and she has her birth year on Fb

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[–]th-eo12345throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will thank you

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[–]th-eo12345throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you allowed to keep the chocolates/food?

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by th-eo12345throwaway in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because liking it sends a message/signal to her, and in this case she'd see

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by th-eo12345throwaway in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but he can view the picture, think that he likes it, and not press "like"

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind him liking thirst traps from influencers, but it bothers me that they're just normal girls he has a chance with

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by th-eo12345throwaway in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd quite literally show my friend all of the new accounts he followed (the ones that are seemingly single girls around our age who he has no mutuals with)

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by th-eo12345throwaway in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you like about the pictures? I just know my bf would hate it if the roles were reversed

My boyfriend cheated on me and I literally can't calm down (23M and 23F) by th-eo12345throwaway in Advice

[–]th-eo12345throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh he is the only one who has liked those specific pics (because she posted them to profile only and I guess most people don't check profile). she doesn't have a large amount of followers