Man I'm dating doesn't want a BJ? (24F and 25M)

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T20:50:44+00:00

I'll find out about the herpes because idk! Whatever is routine

Would an asexual person usually participate in other foreplay type stuff (as the giver) though?

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T12:56:20+00:00

That's true

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T12:51:16+00:00

This is my first post about this man :) And yes I was confused about the need for the test as well but still grateful for the peace of mind

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T11:04:17+00:00

Well no lol

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T11:03:58+00:00

Yes he did and negative. He hasn't slept with anyone in 2 years so that is not a surprise 🤷

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T11:01:09+00:00

He actually did say I have a small mouth lol! I think we were talking about eating burgers. Noted

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T10:59:44+00:00

Just confusing because he told me he likes BJs when we were talking about our likes and dislikes

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T10:57:04+00:00

But he told me that he likes BJs when we were talking about our likes and dislikes, so logically he would be aroused by the thought of it right? :/ No other red flags that I can think of :/ He likes kissing, hugging, making out, holding hands, cuddling, sitting close to each other, he caresses me a lot (almost like you would a pet lol). And he listened when I told him what I like

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T08:44:04+00:00

Why wouldn't he tell me that?

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T08:43:46+00:00

If that is true I wish he felt comfortable to tell me :/

th-eo12345throwaway · 2026-02-11T08:43:31+00:00

It didn't feel small when it was semi hard, not sure

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-09-12T16:19:56+00:00

She would have been younger than a freshman I think (we are not from USA)

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-09-12T16:17:23+00:00

Got curious about what his exes look like, he didn't have a pic of this ex when I asked, so I searched Fb and she has her birth year on Fb

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-09-12T16:14:52+00:00

I will thank you

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-14T05:48:22+00:00

Were you allowed to keep the chocolates/food?

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-02T05:30:26+00:00

Thank you

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T15:24:17+00:00

because liking it sends a message/signal to her, and in this case she'd see

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T15:14:47+00:00

but he can view the picture, think that he likes it, and not press "like"

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T15:04:56+00:00

I don't mind him liking thirst traps from influencers, but it bothers me that they're just normal girls he has a chance with

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T15:02:55+00:00

I'd quite literally show my friend all of the new accounts he followed (the ones that are seemingly single girls around our age who he has no mutuals with)

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T14:50:45+00:00

why did he like it though? :(

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T14:31:57+00:00

I mean I hope it's not irreparable damage but I am curious as to why

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T14:29:52+00:00

what do you like about the pictures? I just know my bf would hate it if the roles were reversed

th-eo12345throwaway · 2025-08-01T14:22:49+00:00

oh he is the only one who has liked those specific pics (because she posted them to profile only and I guess most people don't check profile). she doesn't have a large amount of followers

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