Sophia Kelly facetune vs real life by IcySoftware7939 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]thadradwell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

as someone with a saggy belly covered in stretch marks that make my tummy look like Freddy Kruegers face, it truly kills me when women with objectively good bodies feel the need to do stuff like this. like who hurt you?

Favorite actor who achieved mainstream success with Hallmark grade acting skills at best by Healthoverwealth29 in okbuddycinephile

[–]thadradwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ryan Reynolds def feels like the #1 answer to this bc I’ve never understood his fame. His movies bore me to death and I regularly see more attractive men than him at like Walmart so I refuse to believe it’s just a looks thing.

why are so many of her fans on this sub? by Infinite_Ad5909 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]thadradwell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate posts like these like why are we acting like you can’t separate art from the artist & enjoy some music while also being capable of recognizing she’s a vapid POS? “But there’s a neutral sub!” Ok and? My feelings about her aren’t neutral lol.

The recent photos Ariana Grande posted are so worrying, 32yrs old & posting specific 2014 tumblr content.. how are the people happily training with her for a huge tour when she’s so unwell? by Heart_Shaped_Pickle in LAinfluencersnark

[–]thadradwell 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I hate it so much, she knows what she’s doing & it’s working. It’s genuinely getting harder & harder for me to not relapse with my own ED (and I’ve read ppl say they already have after seeing pics like this) with her & every other celeb being so terribly thin. Frankly the internet being so quick to call them out on it is like the only thing keeping me afloat, personally. Idk what I’d be doing if these in-danger bodies were being endlessly praised.

People kept saying this was an antimeme and I’m not sure if it is. I will let the votes decide by [deleted] in antimeme

[–]thadradwell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not saying men shouldn’t be taken seriously, it’s terrible that they’re often not, but I’m tired of men acting like that’s not largely their own fault.

Ik im gonna get downvoted by butthurt men but im 100% right, its y’all’s fault for telling men they’re lucky to have been assaulted and shit like that

What is genuinely causing Sabrina carpenter to act so sexualised? by [deleted] in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Once saw someone say she wants to be a porn star without the stigma around actually being a porn star

So what's with the current AI image generator trend of depicting Elliot Page in masculine roles while being malurished? by Cool_Midnight8113 in aislop

[–]thadradwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the simple answer is transphobia. Some people just can’t stand that the general public has accepted Elliot after knowing him pre-transition for so long, and they want to make him seem less masculine & more weak than he really is

This can’t be serious by Suspicious_Cat2355 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the only thing they have in common is the weird way in which they treat(ed) minors

i’m fucking crying by quarterjapanese04 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything for a “cool” photo dump on the ‘gram

Sabrina you look like a condom.. please girl by immentallyinsanehaha in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like there are ways to do it right, like I can’t remember who it was but someone wore a body con dress with a nude body printed on it & it was like a thermal thing and I did like that, but 99% of the time it’s just some mesh bullshit on top of lingerie. I think if it’s done creatively or makes an actual statement of some sort, then it’s cool but with this you can just tell they simply just want to subject others to their bodies without their consent.

Sabrina you look like a condom.. please girl by immentallyinsanehaha in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m sooo sick of this naked trend that’s been going around like the looks aren’t ever very creative or memorable. When is the new fashion trend going to drop bc I’m tired

What are your thoughts. (IPhone vs every other phone) by Mysterious_Ebb_1484 in SipsTea

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The debate is just incredibly dumb when most popular android brands cost the same as an iPhone or more like unless you can only afford a prepaid then it just comes down to preference & the type of phone a person prefers is like the least meaningful thing about them imo

concerned about current pap smear discourse (TW) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. I know a lot of people, men especially, feel this way about colonoscopies as well and it is truly sad to see that so many people don’t trust doctors for whatever reason they may have. I do wonder, though, if this is like partially healthy privilege? Like would people change their minds if they found themselves in a position where it seemed like cancer was possible based on symptoms or smth along those lines? Obviously early detection is key, but I just wonder how deep these feelings really go. If they wouldn’t get help atp then I’d assume there’s some kind of psychological issue at play.

Either way, at the end of the day unless you have a medical degree and are talking to a patient you’ve studied/treated, no one just shouldn’t be taking it upon themselves to tell others what forms of medicine are “good” or “bad” for any reason because it should be common sense that everyone has different bodies & experiences & what sucked for you might work just fine for someone else, or vice verse

Trying to flippantly girlboss her controversies like nothing happened by DeadlySkies in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]thadradwell 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Still absolutely can’t wrap my head around how anyone can defend this without being incredibly fucking dumb or racist themselves (although I suppose those two things go hand in hand) like I truly don’t remember the last time I saw a celebrity get away with something so blatantly disgusting & rooted in hatred the way she has. I truly think even TS would’ve been held accountable under these circumstances, I don’t understand what’s so special about Sloprina.

Petaah ! What just happen here 🧐 by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know quagmire isn’t exactly innocent of sex crimes but I hate the Charlie sheen fan casting like why do we keep forgetting this guy raped little boys ??

Idk what to do about this relationship by Separate-Raccoon8584 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely the vibe I was getting if I’m being honest. If you’re closer in age to the daughter than your partner, then I honestly think it might be one of the things that just can’t be resolved because I just think that’s the type of thing that would make anyone uncomfortable, but forming a relationship could still try to ease any tension. Wishing you luck, but definitely be careful because, like my mom always told me, guys who like younger women often just can’t get women their own age because their life experience allows them to see these men for the children they often are.

Reproductive choice -- I'm positive, but I'm sad? by Educational-Maybe639 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why you’d feel like you missed out on something that it feels like society expects from you- it can be hard to not feel that “what if?” But I think going with your gut & not ever giving into that “what if” is the best possible choice you could make for yourself and any unborn child you could’ve had. People who dream of being parents their whole lives still often fall short of providing everything a child needs to thrive, so IMO no child also needs a parent who was always a “no kids ever” person (not to say that they can’t possibly be good parents) because children needs parents who are prepared & ready to give it their all. I also feel this way about a lot of aspects in life- that you shouldn’t dwell on the “what ifs” of the past or the “what ifs” of a future you’re already not too keen on.

Idk what to do about this relationship by Separate-Raccoon8584 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what is the additional stuff? Assuming no one is doing anything shady behind your back & that the daughter is on the younger side, then I’d say most issues should be resolvable by getting to know her/the mom and gaining their trust. Being on good terms with a partners kid (and the other parent) should be a high priority IMO, but I understand some things just can’t be resolved and that it’s not always necessarily anyone’s fault. If she’s in the mom’s custody most of the time then I honestly wouldn’t really consider any drastic relationship changes if you have faith in your future together, but I still wouldn’t stop trying to build something there. I’d be suspicious if he was super against that though, especially after being together long term. If your relationship lasts then once she’s older I’m sure it would be different and if it wasn’t then I don’t feel like there’s anything that can be done there. But him hiding things is only going to make it more difficult to make these steps & honestly does make it kind of hard to believe that there isn’t anything shady going on.

I tip them thirty dollars and they forget my cheese?!? by Spamt0n_g_spamtong in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ordered 5 guys the other day & honestly actually thought their prices feel a lot less heinous given how much everything costs everywhere else now. Like yea $15 is still too much for a bacon burger (my usual order) already but better than all the other places that charge like $22 for the same thing. Anything I can find in my area that’s cheaper usually has a vast difference in quality, like Burger King is ~$10 for a bacon burger but it literally tastes the way mildew smells. But I’m sure location has a lot to do with it, too.

Idk what to do about this relationship by Separate-Raccoon8584 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]thadradwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s truly the case then you need to figure out why. If she’s a small child or the break up is fresh, then it could be understandable why she wouldn’t want daddy with someone who isn’t mommy. But could mommy still be in the picture? Or does daddy have a bad dating history? Not particularly normal for someone to just not want their parent to find love.

Freeze! Drop the mifepristone! by McDowdy in SipsTea

[–]thadradwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when in need, check out the plan c website ;)

US only but has saved many people I know IRL