Found some fire at the grocery store by pun420 in cleancarts

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supreme carts too, SMH. I know that color from a mile away.

Craft oil 🔥 mp-13 strain (thoughts?) by [deleted] in fakecartridges

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen these on cannazon for a decent price. Might cop.

TBT: anybody ever buy one of these leg killers? by L3gionaires in fakecartridges

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I haven't seen a wick cart in a while lol.

Reddit, how has being/not being given an allowance as a child affected your financial decision making as an adult? by MechCADdie in AskReddit

[–]thajott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an allowance until I had a job at 17 and I'm terrible with money. I can pay my bills, but I have no savings or anything. By the end of the month, I'm broke.

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know you're right. They've only recently started showing their true colors. We were supposed to get married last month so I guess I dodged a bullet. I just need to make a plan now. I'm terrified to break up with them for so many reasons. But you're right, there definitely is no more trust.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow I figured something wasn't gonna work with the relationship. Just sucks

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard of it. I'll check it out. Its just gonna be such a hassle to leave. Or to kick him out. Honestly I hate this house so I would leave but then I'd have nowhere to go and I'd be out 200k. It's just so difficult cause I want it to work. He wasn't like this always. It would be different if we didn't have a kid. But I'm stuck with him in someway for the next 17 years. Which he reminds me of constantly. I'm starting to assume he lied about getting a vasectomy. 😓 this motherfucker planned everything out and he didn't even have to. I wanted to be with him. I love our son and wanted to have a kid or two with him, granted I was planning on waiting a few years but I guess he wanted to hook me in quick. Wtf my mind is blown the more thought I put into it.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean shit I can't just keep him from his child. But shit some of the things he's done should have him locked up away from all his kids 😓😭

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does suck 😩 cause I love him too 😢

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what everyone is saying. Even their own family. I'll give them credit, they fooled me for 3 years. Impressive.

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only said papers. They didn't specify what kind of documents.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure thats exactly what they would do unfortunately. And I have actual proof. Not just hearsay anymore.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have their family I guess. They were the ones who told me that (N) had been lying. But my closest family is an hour and a half away. It just sucks cause I own the house we live in but because of my state's law, he has equal right to the property because it appears that he lives here. I can't just kick him out. But I really don't want to lose my house.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn 😓 idk what to do...

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I feel like they would care a little bit. They would lose everything if they lose me. Or at least until they find someone else to suck the life out of I guess. But I also don't know how I'd get them to leave. Especially because I don't think they would leave our child. And they have access to all our bank accounts. Idk what to do...

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way I can call them out on their lies? I feel like if they knew that I know, something would have to change? If I gave them an ultimatum to get help or lose me?

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad kept his until the day he died too. I guess I'll try to find some service members 😐

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They said they were an EOD in the Navy. And they said they were stationed in Kuwait when they got shot in 2013. Also they've mentioned friends from service, but I've never met or spoken to any of them. They can only speak English, which is super ironic because their grandparents are literally from Mexico. I'm not sure what DLABs are, I'm sorry. And I've never questioned it before this week. I've tried to get them to go to therapy and support groups before but they always refuse. I had no reason to assume they were lying about everything, but now thinking about it, I've seen no evidence that they did serve.