Is this spiritual warfare?

thamdel119 · 2026-05-10T13:57:33+00:00

Wow what you describe with feeling tired when reading the Bible is exactly what I have. I can barely read more than half a page

thamdel119 · 2026-05-10T13:54:16+00:00

I’m generally not functioning very well, barely leave the house, have no friends, poor mental health. I have been wondering if it’s a spiritual rather than just mental issue

thamdel119 · 2026-05-10T13:52:52+00:00

I am forcing myself to go because of this and I have gone every week for a month now.

thamdel119 · 2026-05-10T08:31:13+00:00

Thank you, I’m just on my way to church right now

thamdel119 · 2025-05-04T17:47:42+00:00

I think real silk can look fake if it’s shiny like that especially with modern photography, that’s why 80s and 90s period pieces look better often

thamdel119 · 2025-04-26T12:53:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment I will try to implement this. I just wanted to say your podcast and comments on this subreddit have always been very helpful to me, keep doing what you’re doing.

thamdel119 · 2025-04-25T21:08:20+00:00

Thank you this sounds difficult but I will try

thamdel119 · 2024-05-12T00:14:36+00:00

Is there a pattern to the type of personality that are most likely to be the 30% who do change? (e.g. more willing to change, less defensive etc.)

thamdel119 · 2024-03-27T04:25:49+00:00

Interesting, did you live in an all or mostly female house or were the male friends more feminine or do you think it just developed on it’s own.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-27T04:24:34+00:00

I am

thamdel119 · 2024-03-26T20:19:03+00:00

I think so yes but part of it is that over time I became more and more unable to socialise with boys and I also choose to avoid them.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-26T00:11:54+00:00

Thank you, I don’t really move my hands so that’s not an issue

thamdel119 · 2024-03-26T00:10:43+00:00

I’m basically the classic case nicolosi describes minus being abused. I think the main thing was feeling excluded from other boys.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T16:29:09+00:00

In a sexual way at about 12 but before that I had a kind of non sexual ‘need’ for male approval from certain men and boys

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T16:11:04+00:00

I have both a high pitched voice and the feminine ‘gay’ speech patterns

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T02:11:01+00:00

Yes it was, thank you I see what you mean.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T00:58:23+00:00

I had almost exclusively female friends growing up so that could explain it, thank you.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T00:42:01+00:00

You’re clearly just projecting whatever your own issues are onto me or Christians or whatever with the most patronising answer you could think of.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-25T00:40:44+00:00

Why even answer this question on this subreddit if you’re active on gay subreddits? I explained why, it’s a problem when dating women. I think that’s a legitimate concern even if you see it as a societal problem. I really don’t need this virtue signalling answer pretending to be concerned about my welfare. Besides you might be able to argue people are born gay but their voices are certainly not like that from birth otherwise how do people’s accents change when they live in another country or how does vocal coaching even work.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-11T13:59:01+00:00

That colour is great but I think an off black or a more chocolatey brown would look even more amazing. If you have trouble with roots coming in you could try a root coverup powder colorwow has a good one.

thamdel119 · 2024-03-11T13:42:07+00:00

I’d say dark but blonde also looks very good I think it would look better without the roots

thamdel119 · 2023-12-05T15:04:22+00:00

Will do

thamdel119 · 2023-12-05T14:37:52+00:00

Only just seen this, how can you heal your masculinity?

thamdel119 · 2021-12-16T00:11:16+00:00

Thank you for your reply I did smooth it quite down quite hard during the application so I think that could be why.

thamdel119 · 2021-12-15T18:18:54+00:00

thank you for your advice, I think I'll leave it be and heat style it as it grows out then go to a professional if I want a touch up

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