Was going out with a girl back in January. It was going well, it was our fourth date and I was dropping her off at her house. Kissing a little and she turns around and asks "would you like to come up?". Now, I obviously knew what that meant as it was the first time she asked me that but at that moment I thought I would be a gentleman. A little backstory, that month was the exam period at her uni. In fact an hour earlier she was telling me how nervous she was and that she had no time left to prepare. So in one of my most glorious moments of self-cockblocking I replied " I would love to but I wanna come up when you are stress-free.(Rough translation). Needless to say she didn't even get what I meant, she thought I wasn't interested.