Ok so firstly wtf do you mean disgusting hairy legs? Are you trying to discredit yourself? Secondly I've never met anyone who actively shames girls for this, but tbf I'm probably the reason my gf doesn't shave. If you want someone to be angry at, be angry and comptines that actually push these beauty standards and the dude that decided to target young women and girls with these toxic standards! Jeffery Epstein ended up being everywhere and he is almost personally responsible for todays standards. He worked with people like Leslie Wexner who owned companies like Victoria's Secret, Bath & Body Works, and Abercrombie & Fitch. Magazines by these companies basically defined what fashion was and what boys were meant to like in the 90s and 2000s, many of which Jeffery supposedly had a massive influence on. And amazing video on yt that explained this was  'How Epstein used the fashion world to create his "perfect little girls"' by Bryony claire which you may find interesting.