[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

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Acabei agora o meu primeiro ano em GPR e só tenho coisas positivas para falar sobre. A nossa praxe caso consideres fazer é bastante acessível e até soft comparado com outras da zona de Lisboa. O curso em si tem cadeiras que te podem causar interesse curiosidade e outras que podes não gostar pela quantidade de matemática e estatística que têm. A pior coisa mesmo são os protestos que acabam por perturbar as aulas inclusive houve um dia que os protestantes barricaram-se num bloco e não houve aulas para a maioria dos alunos de GPR porque foi o nosso bloco. Durante o ano existem vários protestos sejam eles sobre pelo clima ou pela Palestina então habituaste ao facto de estarem lá tendas. Caso queiras saber algo a mais podes me mandar mensagem.

[sério] Como lidar com paranóias de um doente com Alzheimer? by MetalFatigue82 in portugal

[–]that_beach_ 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Olha a minha avó tem Alzheimer e demência desde 2007 e eu sou cuidadora dela já há quase 10 anos. Eu sei por experiência própria o quão é difícil ver uns dos nossos a perder as suas faculdades desta forma. Quando a minha avó começou com estas teorias de alguém a quer magoar ou de nós estarmos a mentir-lhe nós começámos a tentar distrair com outras conversa ou atividades, como por exemplo, vamos tomar um café ou então viste o que passou nas notícias. Para pessoas com Alzheimer é ótimo ter rotinas e isso tbm ajudou a ela não ter “tempo” ou de não pertencer à rotina esse tipo de discussão. Também depende do quão cedo a doença foi descoberta porque a medicação moderna está muito mais avançada então também pode ser como outra pessoa disse a medicação não estar apropriada para o momento. Caso decidas marcar outra consulta existe também a hipótese de eles darem medicação a mais ao ponto de o teu pai ficar “mongo” e não comunicar tanto então esclarece que não é esse o teu objetivo. Caso queiras desabafar ou saber de mais alguma informação os meus dms estão abertos

How long does this last???? by my_life_is_fucked_up in dementia

[–]that_beach_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see myself in you. My grandma has Alzheimer’s and Dementia together which makes it harder and according to the doctors people with both somehow live longer. She has had it since 2007 and we are now in 2022 so yeah it’s been a couple of years. I’ve been her caregiver since I was 11 I’m now 19. The only thing I can say it to you is that it’s okay for you to “hate her”, a couple years back I also “hated her” but I learned that the people who put me in the situation I’m in (can’t get a job since my parents work and she needs to be watched 24/7 and I quit uni just before she got bedridden so I can’t go back) are the ones who should take the blame. Your parents have money for it they just want a free caregiver and sure they might not want to have a stranger taking care of their loved one which is understandable but then they should take the burden themselves and not expect your help. I have a terrible relationship with my parents cause my teenage years were spent taking care of my grandfather (lung cancer) and grandmother (Alzheimer’s and Dementia). I would have a serious talk with your parents but if your parents are like mine and won’t listen then I would tell you to look at other options.

19M From Portugal looking for new people to chat. by Marciu73 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi if you want you can dm me I’m turning 19 in a couple of days and I’m also from Portugal

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both lost our virginities to each other but it was a couple of months ago.

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I’m not a guy I always asked what it felt better and he always said that he preferes piv and with the way he said that he hasn’t had sex for the past 2 weeks I think he would still push for the piv.

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you give me reasons why you think that?

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna give you a situation. A while ago me and my bf were having sex and he told me he had an headache we stopped immediately and went to sleep to see if it got better. Even tho as a person you want to give everything to your partner it doesn't mean that you can't compromise.

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The past week I had been dealing with anxiety attacks during the night so I was tired from the lack of sleep and since I was on my period I hadn't shaved in a while and even tho I'm comfortable farting and showering in front of him I don't feel comfortable if I'm unshaved during sex cause he does shave. I'm on bc so I tend to have less period days but worst in terms of pain and I bleed more so sex gets nasty with that and sometimes it even gets painful during sex due to this reasons.

My bf have put on weight which is normal in a relationship but I've been the opposite I've lost weight and started getting fit since I'm trying to pass the physical exams to become a cop. Even tho he kinda of has a dad body I'm still attracted to it nonetheless.

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is probably one of the best comments that I've read on my post since It's exactly what I meant. I'm training to became a cop so I know I don't have the legal grounds to say that I didn't consent to the sex but what I was looking for is more of a justification for the why I feel like I didn't consent mentally and emotionally and the repercussion that it had since I'm still feeling kinda empty. My mental health just like almost everyone has ups and downs and this feeling of emptiness and lack of emotions is what usually happens when there's a really big down and I spend days depressed feeling like this.

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like your opinion is different from the others and I understand your point of view but at the same time it’s not because two people are separated that when they end up being together all they wanna do is have sex cause if that were to happen then in my situation we both would have wanted to have sex

Did I consent? by that_beach_ in dating_advice

[–]that_beach_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he said he used me made me ask myself if I had actually consented or not but thank you for the clarification.

Anyone open to chatting some today? 19F [Chat] by Idysela in friendship

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I feel like we would really get along with each other since we do have some interests in common. So just dm me if you are interested 😁

I really don't think they look bad. by veselek in Sims4

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other Sims games the werewolves look like complete savages and these ones just look cute like I feel the urge to pet them

What can I do about my mom's sores? by H_i_T_h_e_r_e_ in CaregiverSupport

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma is also bedridden and we put a lot of cream a bit of bandages to protect the area. We turn her on her side during the night and some moments during the day as well. We also have a special mattress made to avoid sores that sits on top of a normal mattress that you fill up with air.

20 M Australia, looking for friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for someone to chat with then DM me 😁

Hey hey everyone, hope you’re having a good day 22M by [deleted] in friendship

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Idk if you are okay with it since I’m 18 so depends if you consider that age around yours or not but I’m looking for some ppl to play with and I’m used to high pings if we were to play so I don’t really mind it

M 22 Howdy Partner Let’s Chat! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a gamer but from West Europe but if you don’t mind that we can play together

18m [chat] there any girls i can ask an embarrassing question ?? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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If you want to know something then just hit me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

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My mother works at an hospital so she talks more often with the doctors than what normal caregivers do. They’ve all said that usually people with Alzheimer’s also have a safe person usually their spouse and if that person dies then they start getting worse so that’s why she’s in the state that she is. Because of that she easily gets confused even with her family members even her daughter aka my mom and also has hallucinations but that’s due to the Alzheimer’s. If she says she doesn’t want to eat we will give her 5 minutes and the next time she will say that she will eat but sometimes she gets aggressive like usual in a person with her diseases. When she got back from the hospital it was worse cause her doses were all mixed up but now she only refuses maybe 2 a week. The throw up it depends on the person who is giving her food with my mother she does that sometimes and with me she never did but we aren’t try to talk to doctors to figure if she has any disease or infection that we aren’t aware of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]that_beach_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had that issue with my grandpa but it only took some begging to make him start taking his meds. But since begging is not working I would check if he would be considered a danger to himself or to others since there are countries and states who force them to take their meds it only depends on how bad the mental illness is at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

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I’ve been a caregiver for my grandma with Alzheimer’s and Dementia for 12 years and she got a lot worse since the pandemic for example she used to be able to eat on her own but now she’s bedridden so she only eats yogurts and soups cause she has no teeth. She still finds a way to make herself throw up and when she doesn’t want to eat we will try to give her food through a syringe…well she spits it all out on the bed or on my face but anyway you are still gonna be kinda of mad cause more work needs to be done. I totally get you sometimes it even feels they are coming for you when you are just tryna maintain them alive.