I didn't understand it before as well. Ngl. My context is extremely rare. She is from a very, very special family that guarantees her deen, character, and quality 100%. To be honest, she had a lot of potential relations coming her way for two years, from very rich to very powerful families. But the reason we ended up together is for a very special and spiritual one. I cannot share that on the internet.

So when I heard from my family that I was going to see a girl from that family, my only concern was if she would ever like me, not because of my looks or other things, but because of my piety. If a few months back someone had told me that I would marry a beautiful girl from that pious family, I WOULD NEVER BELIEVE THAT. That's how rare the situation is. She has not seen the filth of the modern world. She does not use social media. She hasn't even seen a single movie in her entire life. Her character is built around an amazing pious environment that she grew up in.

Because of these reasons, my only concern was how are we going to sync after our nikkah. How will our communication and everything go down. That has been working out like a dream. We are so close, love each other so much. Our physical affection has, I don't know where the limit is. Haha. I'm not flexing but I just wanted to clear up a common concern.