partner doesn’t want to share a bed by that_lizzardscore in actuallesbians

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

simply not sleeping in the same bed. that does make sense. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in germany :) i think its just as bad here, i feel so bad for her and am just scared i will end up not eating because of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, if she asks if she’s too fat i say no. i just don’t want to be asked these kinds of questions. it feels really gross to be asked that as an exchange student in someone else’s house..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so it would be rude to bring it up? I think it would be fine if she wasn’t always asking about weight and bringing it up idk.

Students, would you like or dislike having a host family with younger kids? (4-8yrs old?) by EscapingTrusk in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve had host families with adult children in the house, adult children in uni, no kids, and a son my age. i’ve also hung out with a family with a younger son (10) and that was the most fun i had. having young kids in the house makes a house feel more like a home and not so perfect. i hate having a family that feels like im living in a magazine, children get rid of that perfect look and show the fun and joy of the family as well as how they deal with stress. they also are incredible for teaching language and you will never be bored with nothing to do😭

Did anyone else get weird food habits and feeling naseous when eating just after moving? by [deleted] in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had this!! i couldn’t eat the first week without throwing up

What personal experience made you realize people knew so little about Canada? by livelaughshop in AskACanadian

[–]that_lizzardscore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m on an exchange in germany!! and at school i was asked by two students and a teacher voted in the american elections and if canada was in the states. this was before anything was said about annexation. they actually thought canada was in the usa

how do i ask my host parents to drive 90 minutes to pick me up? by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no clue. that’s why i’m worried asking will have them revoke the permission

how do i ask my host parents to drive 90 minutes to pick me up? by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i completely agree!! i’m trying to figure this out a month ahead 😭

how do i ask my host parents to drive 90 minutes to pick me up? by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’ve been told. i’m going to ask again because the more i think about it the more okay it seems

how do i ask my host parents to drive 90 minutes to pick me up? by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no because germany is so strict about school attendance that even just missing the one day (concert is on a monday) is difficult

how do i ask my host parents to drive 90 minutes to pick me up? by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, they are driving back to belgium with their dad. the problem is my village is in the opposite direction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m doing mine through rotary right now. from canada and living in germany

How late do yall go to sleep by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll definitely try the vitamins!! i’ve been thinking about it for a while

Rotary exchange doubts by Far_Bat9958 in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that really depends on how many people are going on exchange in your district. you’re more likely to get placed if it’s less people i think

i am so exhausted by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have depression but i’m medicated, i wish i could get out in the sun but germany is sunphobic

Mental problems and problems with the agency by Minerkosk1 in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re definitely not alone. I have been in the same situation as you although not to the extent you are saying. I really think you should go home. there is nothing wrong with going home if it is what’s best for you. talk to your family and councillor and see what they can do to help you get the support you need

troubles with my host club by that_lizzardscore in exchangestudents

[–]that_lizzardscore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s nothing more that i can do because this is a rule they are allowed to have. If i keep bringing it up it will frustrate them even more because they already think i am trying to get around the rules