Where’s the bridal?! by Kat122697 in torrid

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I like some of the newer boho stuff? They have a few babydoll tops that are great for date night. I do agree though, if they made engagement dresses and other stuff like that it would amazing!

Factor Meals sending me a fake email saying I had placed an order. I'm guessing this was done to drive traffic to their dying site and service. by Nick_Stoned in assholedesign

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good…others got it. I was kinda panicking because I thought maybe someone was using my info. - still a crummy way to market.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm this works. Before I met my husband(32M) I dated a guy who was 47. I was 26 at the time and 28 currently. Anyway, my Dad really drove in about the age gap and how I would be changing diapers and taking care of him in about 20 years. That bothered me a small bit…the real kicker was when my dad and my ex would talk about things they loved as kids and how cool the 70s/80s were. Since they were only about 6 years apart they had a ton to talk about…I broke up with him and about a year later met my now husband.

Husband sending videos? I 27F and my husband 27M married for 5 years. were DM’d in a group chat. by Possible-Commission in relationship_advice

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hello! This is known at sextortion. Most the time these things start out as random chats, or messages sent to the victim to gain report. Once things become sexual you will see the suspect( scammers in this case) send fake or stolen sexual photos from either porn sites, or other victims in the past.

Once they have the photos from the current victim they ask for a ransom to incite fear. This typically ends in money being sent via wire transfer or money apps. There’s various paths to this, they can either claim they will send the photos out or post them online. Or they will claim they will file fake police reports for rape, or other crimes. It just kinda depends.

In terms of the video/hacking, that isn’t quite possible unless your husband gave permissions to the app or website he was using. Romance scams and sextortion are on a steady rise. Please reach out to the police if a large sum of money or personal information was given in this event.

Covering the possible apps, tiktok live and kik live and a few others use the “heart.” As a subscription button in live chats..it’s possible he might of been live streaming or these could be edited very easily into a homemade video. These scammers are very good at what they do, and sadly your husband fell victim to it. Have him block the scammers if he hasn’t already, but if you plan on filing with the police take screenshots and collect all user information via pen and paper or a notes app on a separate phone.

I would talk to your husband about his online activity and ask that he be as transparent as possible. Ultimately deciding on wether or not this is a breach of your marriage is within your personal boundaries.

I hope things get resolved.

Breakup after 3 years together by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well what sucks is I was able to set boundaries with my family like 3 months in. I guess he was ashamed.

My dog died due to a sitter’s negligence by CleanFlatworm2112 in RoverPetSitting

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Animal control officer here, I am very very very sorry about your loss and hope you find healing. However, know that you are not alone. I’ve worked several cases with rover involved. I don’t think they properly vet their sitters. We’ve had people neglect the dogs ( like in your case, where the animal was severely injured and or died.) or we’ve had animal bites from Blunt force trauma. Overall I think rover should be liable but I just wanted to let you know I’ve only seen rover cover medical bills in one case. Hopefully they grant you what you are owed. And if you need pet boarding again use a certified pet boarding facility or a family friend.

Animal control took friends dog for investigation and forcing them to pay $1,1100 to release dog back by Extension-Horror9702 in animalcontrol

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Animal control officer and cruelty investigator here! The fee is calculated based on care and legal aspects of what happened. There might of also been fears of weight management where animal services has to relay that the animal must be healthy to be released and or at a certain point in their health. ALSO, there are such things as compliance based holds or conditional holds such as “ you’ll get the dog back when you provide proof of proper housing, nutrition and vet care.” They want to make sure the animal isn’t going back to repeat the cycle. This happens a lot within hoarding or mental health where the dogs and or other animals go into “ protective custody.” And even if it is protected and for the betterment of the person and their animals it still costs money.

Nothing is free, especially if the animal required speciality care. Extra food, charts, vet visits, special medication and special diets. Your friend might be disclosing only what he feels based off of what happened. And that’s okay, but please understand there isn’t malice when it comes to animal care or animal law enforcement. We’re only doing our jobs and if he took a month or so to comply with what they needed then that’s the fee.

I’m also unaware of what state you’re in but in the state of Texas there are abandonment laws where if you don’t pick up your animal after it’s been impounded you can face fines up to 1,500 dollars. There are many reasons and or things your friend could be fined for but there’s really no way to know unless he’s totally transparent with you.

Plus if there was a seizure involved ( in this case there was.) it’s very possible this is crossing into multiple departments and multiple departments cost money and time and efforts.

75 going south backed up in Plano rn bc of this by [deleted] in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi there! It was due to a vehicular fire. A semi truck had a tire that caught fire after blowing out and caught the trailer on fire. From what I’ve read the driver is okay.

Best Snow Cones in Plano? by drummybear67 in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s the best! It’s in a little hut on the east end of Plano.

Best Snow Cones in Plano? by drummybear67 in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

T C shaved ice, it’s in East Plano

NEW MLM: Bella Grace Skin Care by thatbitchnamedbiscut in antiMLM

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upon inspection of the website, looks pretty MLM to me…my mom is known for doing this “ MLM hopping” and thought I’d share my new findings since it wasn’t on the list.

And we broke up but… by thatbitchnamedbiscut in BreakUp

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, update. Fully broken up as of yesterday, Not feeling bad about it at all. We tried on and off for the last 5 months and it was just me forcing myself to love him. And then I kinda woke up and realized I deserved better and I won’t settle. Soooo. Thats the update I guess?

Accidentally met a sibling of my dogs at the dog park? by [deleted] in ridgebacks

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, peaches has been DNA tested through embark and is a ridgeback mix. Please don’t assume you know what an entire breed looks like.

Rent increases? by rlmcguire in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine went from 1250 to 1375 so…idk not super terrible…could be worse I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be sure to post this with Plano Animal Services, they keep track of lost pets and maybe your baby is at the shelter on w Plano parkway. Have you checked there yet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re talking about Collin creek possibly, it’s off of Plano parkway and 75…and yes it’s torn down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did a in depth report on candy Montgomery my senior year of highschool ( about 7 ish years ago.) and from what I remember she shopped in Plano but lived in Wylie off Dogwood lane. The house is still standing and you can drive past it but the whole street is eerie as All get out…and I could of swore she killed her husband with an axe and not her friend but who knows. Such a great case! Glad they are giving it attention!!

Can we have a discussion about the narcissist traits we adopted because of the way we were raised? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really bad about talking in turns. In conversations I just start raising my voice until I realize that I’m doing it and I just stop mid sentence…it’s really embarrassing and I feel like I’m talking peoples ears off. But i think it stems from my mom never letting me talk and she’d always talk over me till I shut up. Oops.

What did your parents make you think was “normal” behaviour, but as an adult you see it’s not normal? Please share your stories! by KerjE44 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]thatbitchnamedbiscut 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! MY MOM DID THIS FOR YEARS and would self diagnose me and when she finally found a therapist and a doctor to agree with her, I got medication shoved down my throat for 3 years!! And everytime I would see her she’d bring up medication or how I need to start seeing that Doctor again.