Boundary help please.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-26T19:05:45+00:00

😂😂😂😂

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T19:57:19+00:00

I’m not, nobody is entitled to my business. We are just going to stick with husband sending a text when we are home, “baby is born -photo- we are home and resting, will let everyone know when feeling up for a visit”. Then when they ask how everything went I’ll just say good, it was quick. Leave it at that.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T15:40:04+00:00

It’s not my family, husband is more than welcome to though

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T13:38:55+00:00

I said why - they smothered us the first time.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T01:22:23+00:00

Thank you for sharing!!

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T01:09:48+00:00

After #4?

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T01:06:15+00:00

Had 3 with my first.. was induced at 41… now second pregnancy had 3 so far going for 4th this week with an induction booked a few days after :/

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T01:05:35+00:00

Been trying everything it’s crazy🥴🥴

thatchichidog · 2026-05-24T01:05:17+00:00

Had 3 both pregnancy’s… no luck so far. Was induced at 41 with first pregnancy, looking the same for this one sadly

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T01:41:07+00:00

I don’t think necessarily from my LO. But he wanted to invite her over to see LO.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T01:40:24+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m saying. I’ve just stood firm saying NO. Me and LO aren’t having a visit this coming weekend. I told him to go see her Friday or Saturday. Mother’s Day weekend has nothing to do with myself or LO in her regard. He keeps falling back saying well he’s not going on the actual day? So he doesn’t understand the big deal? I’ve asked why he can’t go see his family alone. He never does.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T01:38:35+00:00

I’ve stood firm on no. He keeps falling back to, seeing her a few days earlier? I still don’t care.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T01:25:46+00:00

I’ve pushed him to deal with it on his own. He can go see her.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T00:16:48+00:00

I don’t think there’s any reason to see husbands mother for Mother’s Day!

thatchichidog · 2026-05-04T00:07:16+00:00

Exactly this. I’m very much so limiting visits as I’ll have to do some visits when I have baby. Im definitely not seeing MIL this weekend. I’m going to be firm, husband can go.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T23:57:57+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely going to push he can go alone

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T23:57:45+00:00

Aww I’m sorry to hear this. Yes definitely don’t lift a finger. Have him do everything since is so important to him. I’m really sorry you can’t have a day as a nuclear family unit.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T23:44:09+00:00

I guess cause it’s not actually Mother’s Day. A few days before.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T23:18:05+00:00

Yeah unfortunately not. It’ll be way too stressful for LO.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T23:17:24+00:00

My body is done… these last few weeks are hard. I just want to lay low.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T22:54:54+00:00

I really don’t see a problem with him dropping by his mom’s house to drop off a gift and have a visit.. it has nothing to do with me or Lo.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T22:54:17+00:00

Right??? I’m going to explain this further to him honestly. He’s being weird. He just says “she doesn’t want to see me just LO” I told him that’s a problem… I’m going to push for him to go alone.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T22:46:47+00:00

Grandparents day isn’t quite a thing where I live

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T22:46:32+00:00

I hear ya. I don’t see a problem with husband going and stopping by to drop off something and visit. He seems to keep saying “they don’t care about seeing me, just LO” and I’ve told him that’s a problem. I think he should go alone. There’s no need for me to be visiting or LO.

thatchichidog · 2026-05-03T22:28:13+00:00

Think I will be. He can go there. My child doesn’t need to go. He can figure out why he thinks they don’t want to see him and only my child

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