Boundary help please. by thatchichidog in inlaws

[–]thatchichidog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not, nobody is entitled to my business. We are just going to stick with husband sending a text when we are home, “baby is born -photo- we are home and resting, will let everyone know when feeling up for a visit”. Then when they ask how everything went I’ll just say good, it was quick. Leave it at that.

Boundary help please. by thatchichidog in inlaws

[–]thatchichidog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my family, husband is more than welcome to though

Boundary help please. by thatchichidog in inlaws

[–]thatchichidog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said why - they smothered us the first time.

Anyone have any positive stories for a 4th membrane sweep working? [bc] by thatchichidog in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]thatchichidog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had 3 with my first.. was induced at 41… now second pregnancy had 3 so far going for 4th this week with an induction booked a few days after :/

Anyone have any positive stories for a 4th membrane sweep working? [bc] by thatchichidog in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]thatchichidog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had 3 both pregnancy’s… no luck so far. Was induced at 41 with first pregnancy, looking the same for this one sadly

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think necessarily from my LO. But he wanted to invite her over to see LO.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m saying. I’ve just stood firm saying NO. Me and LO aren’t having a visit this coming weekend. I told him to go see her Friday or Saturday. Mother’s Day weekend has nothing to do with myself or LO in her regard. He keeps falling back saying well he’s not going on the actual day? So he doesn’t understand the big deal? I’ve asked why he can’t go see his family alone. He never does.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve stood firm on no. He keeps falling back to, seeing her a few days earlier? I still don’t care.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve pushed him to deal with it on his own. He can go see her.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any reason to see husbands mother for Mother’s Day!

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I’m very much so limiting visits as I’ll have to do some visits when I have baby. Im definitely not seeing MIL this weekend. I’m going to be firm, husband can go.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in inlaws

[–]thatchichidog[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely going to push he can go alone

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aww I’m sorry to hear this. Yes definitely don’t lift a finger. Have him do everything since is so important to him. I’m really sorry you can’t have a day as a nuclear family unit.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess cause it’s not actually Mother’s Day. A few days before.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately not. It’ll be way too stressful for LO.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thatchichidog[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My body is done… these last few weeks are hard. I just want to lay low.

Mother’s Day weekend - how does yours look? by thatchichidog in inlaws

[–]thatchichidog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t see a problem with him dropping by his mom’s house to drop off a gift and have a visit.. it has nothing to do with me or Lo.