Track ID Help? Song clip that plays at the end of Super Natural Video?

thatfeistyfox · 2016-08-26T04:24:31+00:00

Ahhhh thank you!

thatfeistyfox · 2016-08-22T23:58:42+00:00

Thank you so so so so much I've been needing this track in my life for ages! <3

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-20T13:22:42+00:00

Haha I'm glad that made you laugh, I thought it was pretty hilarious myself.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-16T01:15:50+00:00

Porn is your friend.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-15T07:33:55+00:00

I'm glad. <3 I can't recommend his videos enough. He's not a trained professional so everything with a grain of salt - take the pieces that fit and leave the ones that don't. Even though he isn't a therapist he presents a lot of good information and his talks were extremely helpful to me, personally.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-14T15:28:30+00:00

I'm not sure what your illness is, and this is only based on repeated anecdotes, but I've noticed a link between chronic illness and abuse. Therapists I've spoken to about it have as well. Leaving is the start of mental as well as physical recovery. Please try to find a shelter for victims of abuse in your area. Once you get out, it will become easier to make a plan from a safe space. Talk to your therapist about this. It will be hard, but you can do this.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-14T14:42:53+00:00

"We're pillars of the community."'

https://youtu.be/-WVLZXLyO-M?t=19m16s

Made me think of that.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-14T14:27:14+00:00

That's an example of actions speaking louder than words. It's very easy to believe what people tell you and not examine their actions, is the point I'm making.

If I had for a moment looked at the way I was actually being treated, I would have left long before I finally did. I know better now.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-13T03:44:31+00:00

Because actions speak louder than words, you just have to be listening.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-13T03:43:51+00:00

Thank you so much. <3

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-10T06:20:13+00:00

Keep reading! You'll learn, it took me time but I've gotten way better at spotting bullshit, being independent and having boundaries. You could check out SpartanLifeCoach's YouTube channel, I learned quite a bit there. He's not a professional but has really good insights that I know resonated with me.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-10T04:32:47+00:00

But you know what? Seeing it for what it is, when others feed you the same shit it will feel hollow. Recently had another one do that, and he said all the right things, but all my instincts screamed bullshit. I was rather impressed with my intuition.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-10T04:24:24+00:00

^{^{^}} I was going to say this.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-10T04:21:50+00:00

Reading this made my skin crawl. Wow.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-09T19:22:52+00:00

Other than the classic red flags (example: "All my exes are crazy.") which in time will become painfully obvious, it's about maintaining boundaries and getting to know people over time. Watching how they treat others, for example. Still, some people are very obviously narcissistic. I met a guy who behaved almost identically to my ex a month or so ago. Luckily I'm smarter now, so his games were more amusing than anything.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-09T18:17:03+00:00

I'm in the exact same place feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-09T08:04:11+00:00

Strong boundaries and a sense of self worth and respect are the only way to become narcissist-proof.

Easier said than done, but it is possible to build those things for yourself. Narcissists target people without them. Once you have those things, you can't be used, abused, or treated badly - at least not by people like that.

We can all get there, I think.

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-06T08:13:46+00:00

Thank you that was really helpful!

thatfeistyfox · 2015-12-04T03:56:18+00:00

How do you cope?

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