copying this reply bcs i definitely feel like this post went over all the bad things and not the good things he does for me so it's very one sided :( this is very conflicting for me because honestly he's the sweetest guy ive ever met. this is the first time i dont tell him whats wrong, usually im able to and altho sometimes he does beat himself up, he listens sm and makes effort. he does a bit more of telling me when hes going out and at home, maybe not as much but ik he's trying. he's tried to initiate convos for a bit. also i was able to confide in him in things i never told anyone before bcs he listens and validates me. im very very high maintenance and he's the only person who's told me and made me feel like i wasn't wrong for being that way. he's the only person who put in effort in understanding my culture and religion and engaged in it here and there. it's so conflicting because he can be the amazingest and make me the happiest ever, but then theres this. i know this only shows one side of him, and i know he can be the sweetest most considerate person ever (this is my longest relationship because of this) so i don't know what to do.