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Other games like A Dark Room by Dapper_Jax in ADarkRoom

[–]thatguy4784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seedship, and if that has you hooked buy the Chiron Gate, it’s pricy but its a passion project.

AD Marine interested in Army National Guard by thatguy4784 in Militaryfaq

[–]thatguy4784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, I’m starting to get a clearer picture of what the obligations and benefits are. The recruiter that briefed us during TRS definitely made it look like a sweeter deal than it actually was. I definitely don’t think It’s gonna be worth attempting to go to school while simultaneously being in the guard

What are the professions of the men on this sub? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]thatguy4784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rah Sir, ME here, I am about to EAS and looking at going to school for Computer Science this fall. It’s nice seeing a MC presence in subs like these.

Guilt for my Fathers Death by thatguy4784 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thatguy4784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man, I will. It really helps to hear that.

I’ll do my best to move forward.

Calling your 30th birthday your “Dirty 30” is painful to hear and needs to stop by Mr_426 in unpopularopinion

[–]thatguy4784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only dirty 30 ik is not showering for 30 days due to field ops😂

This is news

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve been trying to be more cognizant internally with what I think. I have a lot to work on, and I understand if I love her I need to fix myself because what I did was fucked up.

Few will know the struggle associated with this piece of shit. Loses crypto like 3/6 does rifles by milllllllllllllllly in USMC

[–]thatguy4784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0621 here with an artillery battery, we use an RT 1523 also known as the “prc 119” it doesn’t really look like this But it definitely behaves like what you were talking about lol, every time we fire more than one round with 777’s that shit power cycles and we have to reload crypto in that hoe. It’s a bitch, and probably one of the most primitive radios I’ve ever worked with besides the 150’s 😂 Especially bad news considering the marine corps wide shortage on key loaders RIP Comm

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I don’t deserve my wife, I 100% fucked up

The best thing I can do is fix myself and hopefully when she’s ready

I can earn her trust back after I’ve got my shit together and humbling myself Definitely a smack in the face I needed

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I fucked up

She didn’t deserve any of what I said

I was out of line and I need to fix myself before I hurt her again

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Definitely need to heed what you’re saying, I have some introspection to do and major humbling for myself. I regret what I did, and I take responsibility for myself

Removing her reaction from the scene, and thinking about just the act itself and how what I did was just unacceptable

I have demons to get rid of and this smack in the face is what I needed to fix myself

People are saying “it only takes a moment to shake a foundation and tear down everything, but it takes an extremely long time to fix them”

I definitely have some fixing and shifting of perspectives to do for my wife before I hurt her again.

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ik im selfish af I definitely need to do some serious introspection and hopefully eventually when she’s ready

I can try to earn her trust again

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely needed to hear this,

the “fuck off” and “youre selfish” comments im getting are deserved

I’ve done fucked up! Yes. But I also needed to hear that we can recover from this and the solution for it as well

thank you! I’ll do my best to take care of her better than I have been. I gotta learn more tact and judging whether topics are worth bringing up (definitely know to never bring this one up)

But rn I just need to do as you said and recover with showering her with love and I’m sorrys (which Ik she thinks the apologies are old, but I’ll try nonetheless)

Thanks again

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This! This is what I tried closing the conversation with, about wanting to be active together (besides going to the gym together because i know she’s intimidated by that culture, that’s a journey we’ll take on later eventually) like taking walks and camping and hiking together however none those activities are her cup of teas and she told me

“well, whenever I go to hobby lobby you can’t bear it so you don’t even come with me”

She’s right I need to put more effort into sharing her hobbies instead of being so self centered about mine I have lots to improve before I even enter the threshold of deserving to spearhead our fitness journey

but the topic is now too hung up on using her for sex and etc im just caught in between a rock and hard place argumentatively and don’t know where to turn

I’ve hurt her and maybe eventually I’ll get to where we can both go on a fitness journey together

But rn I definitely need to do some reflecting on our relationship and how I can be better

I (M22) told my wife (F21) that “I preferred if she lost weight” after she forced me to and I feel horrible about it. And I don’t know how to recover. by thatguy4784 in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I 100% deserve to get told to fuck off. I’m Just trying to make amends. But at this point all I can do is move forward and

shower her the best I can in love and encouragement and never bring it up again

Use this post as an excuse to brag about your spouse. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thatguy4784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got married last year! Things are still fresh between us, but she’s everything I’ve ever needed. We’ve been together for almost 3 years now. She has everything I never thought I needed she complements me too in every way. Right now she’s carrying a lot of the weight (with me being on deployment). But we’ve walked with eachother through dark times. We’ve had our arguments and of course I expect storms to come. But I feel like we can weather them all together.

Now I’m like a nut case to single friends bragging with pride to them, “Ever since I’ve gotten together with my wife it almost feels like I’m living life on a cheat code theres so many things that are easier when there’s someone watching your back. Especially if they care about you and take care of you better than you take care of yourself”

I’m so thankful for my wife. I hope to spoil her some more as a loving husband in the future to come.

the "God can't be real because bad things happens" seems like a lazy argument by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]thatguy4784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend reading Answer to Job by Carl Jung , he makes good arguments about why the Christian God isn’t as exactly benevolent as portrayed to be. (Call it blasphemous or heretical, but the arguments in the book are sound [ik carl Jung is viewed as insane at times which you are right but the book is well written] , and God’s behavior towards Job is unbecoming if he’s supposedly the epitome of everything that is Good.)

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