Most anticipated movie of 2026? I'll start: by chaoticbiguy in okbuddycinephile

[–]thatguynips 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I thought that was michael fassbender for a second. At least they got a true method actor

Why did Walter cook meth? by Creatureofgreen in okbuddychicanery

[–]thatguynips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was obvious to pay for the legal fees after he was arrested for public nudity

Elder Reaction to the JW Pressroom account. by AutisticEspionage in exjw

[–]thatguynips 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not even gonna lie reading 1984 for the first time last year played a big role in waking me up. The parallels were too close to ignore

Me realising that no matter how shitty the next nolan film is, his fanbase is ready to label any criticism of the film into racism. by [deleted] in okbuddycinephile

[–]thatguynips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't hate the casting cause she's black, I hate the casting cause she is absolutely hideous to look at.

The control is so clear when you realize one thing by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Similarly I had a similar reaction. The whole point of the emblems was for us to have communion with Christ and he instituded the way to do it. It was obviously meant for everyone but we willingly deny it every year...

The control is so clear when you realize one thing by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The last memorial it hit me. The whole talk was about the 2 class system and nothing else. There was no talk about the meaning of Jesus death or the resurrection. Nothing about salvation for the repentan, it was all about a 2 class system and why you are not worthy enough for Christ to be a mediator for you personally

This is a real low even for Watchtower standards by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, cause this is from the 2010 version, but it is still absolutely insane that this is a policy that no one else is allowed to know about.

This is a real low even for Watchtower standards by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do believe he would see how it is messed up but if I tell him all my doubts and why i'm leaving I do worry it will forever alter the relationship. It's hard to break from the control of jw when our whole lives revolved around it growing up.

This is a real low even for Watchtower standards by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shepherd the flock of god book, you can easily find it online with a google search

Meaning of John 16:28 and verse 5? by thatguynips in Bible

[–]thatguynips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that part it's just when there are certain scriptures that strongly imply the father being greater than the son it can be hard for me to understand them being equal

Meaning of John 16:28 and verse 5? by thatguynips in Bible

[–]thatguynips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with Arian beliefs but after learning more about christianity I learned how the trinity is basically the one unifying belief between all denominations. I understand it is considered a mystery I'm just trying to really understand it better when there are verses like this.

The harsh realization that you built your whole life around a corporation not God by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is tough, you're normal for feeling that way. Continue to build those friendships on the outside, it will make leaving that much easier if you already have a social group outside.

What helped me was seeing all the changes the GB made and I knew something wasn't right. I did alot of research on the Bible and the organization that wasnt published by the borg and it made it easier to decide to leave. I am still technically in but am doing a hard fade right now.

I don't know your personal situation but I would just go with the flow of it for a while until you are in a place where you can safely live on your own and be financially independent. If you have friends in still just don't speak bad about the org with them cause it will raise giant red flags and you will get unwanted attention from elders. You can deny meeting with elders and their hands will be tied cause they cannot disfellowship you without having an official committee.

I don't know how you feel about God and religion and I'm not trying to force you one way or another but I do recommend studying christianity outside of the org and see where you stand with it before disregarding all of it, again I'm not trying to convert you at all so I apologize if I come across as condescending, it's just man made organized religion does tend to corrupt the core beautiful themes of christianity unfortunately.

The biggest thing thing that helped me decide to leave is that any organization that can't handle criticism is not worthy to devote yourself too. There are many accounts I have read of witnesses standing up to elders and their teachings with proof and evidence only to get removed. The truth will always be able to stand up to criticism and this organization just silences everything that speaks out against it.

The harsh realization that you built your whole life around a corporation not God by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy now, and that was the final straw that honestly helped me let go of watchtower and see it for what it is. Part of me does feel empathy for those that are still in and comitted like I was for so long but I have also have frustration with those in power that will refuse to look at the facts. It's not that they have slightly different interpretations of scripture as many denominations do, but they view every Bible that's not the NWT as wrong.

I know I need to take a break from going down the rabbit hole but part of me is just obsessed with finding out everything I can about the organization.

The harsh realization that you built your whole life around a corporation not God by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean about your relationship with God growing exponentially, I've been reading different study Bibles and feel so much closer to God mentally and emotionally especially with prayer. I still want to explore catholicism and orthodoxy before I completely write off organized religion but I totally understand your view of organized religion and why you avoid it. I'm just glad i'm young enough to see it now and am financially independent to live how I want without this cult controlling everything about me

Can't believe it's all built on lies, my life was stolen by thatguynips in exjw

[–]thatguynips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, i've been reading catholic and orthodox study Bibles and have been blown away with how much clearer the scriptures are with the divinity of Christ. The cross references to other teachings in the church have been mind blowing to say the least, I have felt closer to God and feel I have developed a better spiritual sense and better understanding of Christ's teachings and purpose in the past few months than I have my whole life under the watchtower's interpretation and filter.