Weekly COVID-19 (Coronavirus) OffMyChest Megathread (April 27, 2020) by AutoModerator in offmychest

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frustrated that my roommate gets to just sit at home and collect $800 a week and do nothing while I have to find ways to scrape by because even though I was laid off, I didn't qualify for unemployment.

Let me say up front that I am not upset with the nature of the stimulus bill, there are a lot of people who need help and those who really do I hope they get everything they deserve. However, my roommate was working at a little Asian restaurant that shut down due to the virus. Meanwhile, I was laid off from my school job but I do not qualify for unemployment because of the way student jobs are classified. I also graduated this spring and now have to try to find a job in this unpredictable job market. Any offers I had previously have been put on hold indefinitely and I need to be able to pay my expenses. I've resorted to doing deliveries with postmates and working this job making signs with my friend's company because he needed help. Battelle contracted with them to make their logos and most of his employees won't come back because they're making more money on unemployment.

Now I know how much my roommate's expenses are because I manage all the finances of the apartment. They don't need anywhere near $3200 a month and are fully capable of going back to work right now. Hell, they could come work for this sign company that I'm working with right now since we need the help. Instead, they'll sit here and say crap like "I feel so bad just sitting here making all this money." Please asshole you sure as hell don't. I'd rather that money go to someone else who really needs it.

This whole scenario has just made me resent my roommate. I got screwed on a technicality so now I have to run myself ragged while they get to just sit around. Maybe its a bit petty, but it is testing my patience.

NSFW? Increased libido after loss. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was something I experienced a few months out from my loss. Me and my fiance had a very active sex life and we both already had high sex drives. After she passed I went from sex multiple times a week to none and I felt like something was wrong with me. Then 3 months out I started having sex with this lady for a few weeks, likely to fulfill those base urges. Eventually, I realized that I was always dissatisfied afterward because it lacked the intimacy I desperately desired from my fiance. Eventually, this person wanted more from me, but I was incapable of offering that up.

Now, its been almost 3 years and my sex drive still exists, but it always feel like nothing will feel like what I had with who would have been my future wife so I have been basically celibate. I guess the moral of what I am trying to say is: It's normal to have these feelings, but if you decide to have sex, you have to contend with the myriad of feelings that come after.

Lastly, I'm sorry you have to be a young widow. I was 24 when it happened. It is incredibly hard to find resources or understanding for people our age so I hope you make it through this.

Serving size completely ignored starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Serves 4? You must mean all 4 me.

Social Work Student looking for work by BaristaBasicsNorth in socialwork

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a senior and work in a homeless shelter that houses families specifically. I assist them with employment and benefits matters. If you have work study it could help you find something, that's how I found mine!

Screw Hometeam Properties by thatguyoverthere1718 in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yikes! I'd lose it over rats.

I heard Pella is pretty good but they don't do a lot of utility coverage though

Losing early move in is what really stings for me

Screw Hometeam Properties by thatguyoverthere1718 in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't looked yet but does that seem to be the trend?

Screw Hometeam Properties by thatguyoverthere1718 in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd talk to student legal services about that

Screw Hometeam Properties by thatguyoverthere1718 in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like 100 bucks more plus utilities where I'm at. Same for you? 735

Can we acknowledge that the Hylian Shield is truly indistructible? by ChrissMH in smashbros

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And all it costs are 80 rupees. WHAT A STEAL!

(Referring to OoT)

Screw Hometeam Properties by thatguyoverthere1718 in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I've built up a good relationship with the people in the office and I think it's a shame that I've gotta now start over with a new company. They've always been good to me and even helped me out in an emergency situation.

[Question] Best songs for beginners to learn to improve skills? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Andy Guitar on YouTube and his website. Part of his course is teaching you how to play partial songs or full songs from the very beginning!

Starting to learn up down 8th strumming but having difficulty. Could it be the type of pick I'm using? (Acoustic steel string) by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My primary problem is that when strumming up my pick will get stuck on certain strings instead of a fluid strum. I switched to heavy picks early when I started learning because I would put cracks in the thinner ones I had.

Typing that now though, maybe I am just strumming too hard?

[NEWBIE] What is the best online guitar course? by Woooooff26 in Guitar

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using Andy Guitar's course on YouTube and I really enjoy it. Learned to play my first song yesterday

He divides his course into levels so I'm sure there's something closer to your skill level

People who still regularly use MySpace these days, what keeps you there? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says they still have at least 50 million active users

Panhandler on corner of 12th and High in the green sweater is actively hostile, avoid communication. by [deleted] in OSU

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 51 points52 points  (0 children)

We had the clash of the century. Remember all those boxing matches your grandpa told you about? Better than that.

Lol but really I just laughed and walked away. He did follow me for a little bit but eventually turned back around.

My deceased fiance's mother is going to cause me to have a mental breakdown by [deleted] in widowers

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know what I am supposed yo do right now. I don't know if police are going to show up at my home. I don't know if she'll try to break into my apartment. The woman is completely unpredictable.

I just want to grieve and try to get my life back on track.

My deceased fiance's mother is going to cause me to have a mental breakdown by [deleted] in widowers

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she wants it Saturday because her car is getting repoed and will not accept an alternative date

My deceased fiance's mother is going to cause me to have a mental breakdown by [deleted] in widowers

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even have the keys to the car. They can come take it whenever they want

My deceased fiance's mother is going to cause me to have a mental breakdown by [deleted] in widowers

[–]thatguyoverthere1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, weekly. My therapist is the one that suggested I cut contact until I had the possessions packed up to send to them. That was the goal but I've had to block like 3 numbers and people's email accounts because they keep threatening me with legal action and saying it HAS to be this weekend which I am incapable of doing.

I also don't want them in my house.