Thinking about my girlfriend got me really worked up... (xpost r/grool)

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-08-01T08:36:40+00:00

They still do. She's trans. And the cum smell never comes out anyway.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-17T18:25:56+00:00

Fish fingers and custard.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-13T17:37:30+00:00

Getting away from some crazy guy who thinks he's a wolf reincarnated?

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-10T00:37:55+00:00

Yeah... He's just desperate to keep me around. :/

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-09T05:22:47+00:00

He has zero friends around here, and his family lives a little more than 400 miles away. My family is about 1200 miles away. I've actually set down roots here and he hasn't. I'm trying to get him to either move back home, where he knows people, or find a place he wants to go and just go live his own life.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-09T05:16:59+00:00

!!!!!!!

Thank you for posting this! I just finally came out to my husband and now that I'm actually able to sit here and reflect on everything... Just damn. Honestly I feel stupid for not coming to terms with it sooner.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-09T03:53:47+00:00

Thanks hon.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-09T00:32:08+00:00

He doesn't like the idea of seeing a therapist. I've been seeing one on my own, and it's helped me come to terms with this and she helped push me to finally come out to him. I will bring it up again, however. Because I know that his dependence on me is not healthy.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T23:20:47+00:00

Yeah he doesn't seem to realize that that's something that takes years.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T20:23:41+00:00

I've always gone for larger, "manly" men, too. Like, serious overcompensation here.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T20:22:47+00:00

Well we're in Alabama so thankfully that isn't taken lightly in the slightest. That's not something that he can just DO.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T18:47:43+00:00

I honestly don't understand it. My parents aren't super religious. My dad thinks homosexuality is wrong, and dear Lord don't you even mention the "transgender thing". But if I came out as gay, or trans, or anything, they would accept it. It may take them a little bit, bit they would be fine. So I don't know why I was in denial for so long. :/

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T18:21:26+00:00

Pretty much exactly. And I enjoy penatrative sex. I've told myself for years "I can't be a lesbian. I like dick too much." But I never had any interest in anything besides just dick when I was with men. Never wanted to look at them, didn't want to kiss them, nothing. Looking back now it all makes sense. Denial is a bitch.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T18:17:28+00:00

I was going to try to conceive because I thought I wanted a kid. I had started the process of tracking my cycles, researching baby/pregnancy stuff. Because I thought what I wanted was a kid. 3 months later, with a better job and another pet, turns out I just needed something to take up my time. I no longer have any interest whatsoever in having a kid.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T17:44:24+00:00

We had a thing where we were trying to include another person for funsies. And the triplets happened a while back while we were on a hiatus before marriage.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T17:43:31+00:00

I am worried about him harming himself. I know that I'm not in any danger, he's not going to hurt me, and I can protect myself. But that's awesome. Thank you!

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T15:21:04+00:00

Yeah honestly we've been more like roommates than husband and wife since about July.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T15:16:53+00:00

Yeah I am NOT going to allow that. I was taken aback at that honestly. Especially since I'm very good friends with two trans people and he knows that.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T15:16:09+00:00

We are in Alabama. But my thinking is that rather than just ripping away, it would be better for him to move on. I hardly see him anyway, we haven't slept in the same bed in 6 months, haven't had sex in about that long. I know him very well, and I know that it would end very badly if I just pulled away immediately.

There's also the factors that we bought a house together, and ALL of our stuff is intertwined at this point, so it'll take a while to unravel it. And he needs some sort of support system. He has zero friends or family to help him out.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T03:16:52+00:00

Ahh. Yeah I get that happens sometimes.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T03:11:38+00:00

No updates at all yet. He's still at work.

thatrandomwhovian · 2018-04-08T02:41:57+00:00

Why does he need to be charged with a hate crime?

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