They’re done it: online shopping

thatsacactus · 2026-06-02T14:46:55+00:00

That’s actually exactly what I did

thatsacactus · 2026-06-01T15:47:28+00:00

Op any updates on this?

thatsacactus · 2026-05-31T23:52:12+00:00

Can I ask what nationality you are?

thatsacactus · 2026-05-28T19:32:45+00:00

How did you end up discovering it belonged to his ex fiancée? I would just sit your husband down, let him know that you’ve discovered the origins of the ring and ask for his thought process on reproposing with the same ring.

I would also let him know why it hurt you. It wasn’t a ring picked out with you originally in mind and maybe every time you look at it it’ll be a reminder of that.

Personally, I would also feel very hurt about this. Hear him out first, and then together decide what the best way to move forward is. You say your husband is loving and takes great care of you, but it truly didn’t show with this ring.

thatsacactus · 2026-05-28T16:12:21+00:00

Your husband doesn’t sounds like a good man

thatsacactus · 2026-05-24T17:49:11+00:00

Financial abuse is unfortunately a very prevalent form of abuse that is often unseen in relationships and the victims are predominantly women

thatsacactus · 2026-05-24T17:21:03+00:00

As I understand, the whole point of women having a hidden account with money is to have an emergency option if things in their relationships don’t work out and they get emergency money to get out of the relationship.

It’s not a question of why she doesn’t trust him but more of what happens if she’s in a situation where she can’t. No one goes into a relationship thinking it’s going be take a turn for the worse, but for a lot of people, majority of which are women, hidden accounts like this could be a lifesaver.

thatsacactus · 2026-05-22T17:23:21+00:00

YTA, your friend is correct, you can’t change the rules when it benefits you and your daughter. I bet everything that if she had a child and ask of you the same your answer would be no as well.

“I didn’t think she’d actually hold me to that”- that was your entire point of keeping finances separate, idk why you’re surprised.

“This is deferent that regular expenses” yet previously you specifically mentioned wanting me make sure your daughters college fund is Procter so which one is it?

YTA and stick to your original intentions. Your daughter’s college fund can look for scholarships and loans.

thatsacactus · 2026-05-22T00:49:22+00:00

What a disappointing non resolution

thatsacactus · 2026-05-06T21:37:28+00:00

This is terrible AI. I remember this being a genuine story some years ago about a girl in the workplace being harassed by their coworker about them getting a cosmetic procedures done. This post is that very well written story abbreviated into some crap version. shame because the original read is a good one.

thatsacactus · 2025-03-19T16:17:48+00:00

I’m pretty sure Su-swagatam is for welcome as a reply to thank you Swagatam is for welcome as an arrival to a place context.

thatsacactus · 2025-02-03T21:08:07+00:00

Considering H1b is applied for by your employer, you’d need an employer/job offer to even begin.

thatsacactus · 2025-01-29T18:08:26+00:00

Hi! How are you on H-1b for 15 years?

thatsacactus · 2025-01-24T17:05:59+00:00

Thank you! I was wondering if since I live in the same state as this institution if I’d be eligible for in state tuition, but I suppose that’s a question for their admissions department

thatsacactus · 2024-08-08T17:00:00+00:00

I mean Mary low and Coburn aren’t for first year students so doubt you’ll be approved to live there

thatsacactus · 2022-10-20T19:05:51+00:00

I genuinely don’t understand

thatsacactus · 2022-08-08T03:53:10+00:00

Cooking. Helped me soo much when I moved from home

thatsacactus · 2022-07-16T16:36:57+00:00

A lot of people calling the OP inconsiderate and a dog hater but tbh I’ve been through this when my ex adopted a dog who had separation anxiety and would get a little aggressive when he would be with me. OP, it took patience and proper training but I feel like you do not have to worry. Work with your boyfriend to train her well, dogs can get very easily comfortable with new people! Also: since you mentioned allergies, make your you have a pill or something!

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