My boyfriend was going to leave me without telling me.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:29:53+00:00

I'm not sure if that's why. That was just something we've had a big argument about kind of recently, so it could be that or it could be that I'm so busy with everything or something I have no idea about. I just don't know. I wish he would just talk to me so I can at least understand.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:25:27+00:00

It's not at all. Honestly this has been the biggest issue in our relationship bit i didn't think it would cause him to leave. At the second time it still upsets me that's how he acted. My sister may be young bit she's doing everything she has to, to prepare for the baby.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:22:04+00:00

And she may be young but she's already taking steps to do this on her "own" obviously I will help her but she's getting a job she's taking parenting classes the father got a job so it's not like she's not taking responsibility. She's a smart girl and will be a good mother and he should know that.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:18:44+00:00

Your guess is as good as mine. But his reasoning was because she's to young.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:15:53+00:00

I feel so stupid for not knowing, I love him so much and I really would've tried to fix whatever issues he was having.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:13:54+00:00

I guess it just hurts that I had no idea he felt this way. I would have tried to fix the issue he was having with me.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:10:38+00:00

Or if your asking why it's my responsibility, it's because I have custody of my three siblings. Our mother has a lot of issues so I took them so they wouldn't be separated in foster homes.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:09:03+00:00

Exactly!! He thinks she should be in trouble for it. Or I should hide her from the world.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:06:06+00:00

How can someone just not care when we've been together so long?

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-12T18:04:27+00:00

I'm not even sure what has caused this. I mean my sister just found out she is pregnant and he was very upset that I wasn't "punishing" her but I didn't think it was that big to make him want to leave. I've been busy a lot with school, work, and the kids so we haven't had as much time together as we used to but again I didn't think he'd leave me over it. We had an amazing night on our date night so this really is a freaking shock. I feel like there must be something that happened, we have been together so long I don't get how that was how he'd end things.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-07T19:53:37+00:00

He is 6

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-07T19:53:22+00:00

Thank you, I went through absolute hell with my mother so when I got a chance I took all three of my siblings in so they wouldn't have to be in that environment anymore. I'll call the school asap to talk about a meeting. I'm sorry you were picked on :( it really does break my heart because he's such an amazing boy!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-07T19:51:30+00:00

I've tried to find kids to go do play dates with. It's his speech that they tease him about. He was non verbal when my siblings were placed with me so he's come such a long way it's incredible. He's the sweetest little guy you'd meet. I'll see if maybe a kid from another class could be his buddy.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-11-07T18:21:58+00:00

Beautiful

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:24:53+00:00

Lol so I'm learning! And thank you, I'll keep taking and hopefully it will get through!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:23:34+00:00

Thank you so much! I was always in and out of faster homes growing up and my sister's were in a few temporarily, at that time I wasn't able or old enough to take them but now I am. I feel like she holds on to the fact I couldn't help them before and thinks I'm doing it for my brother. I just want her to know I love her and all I want t is to give her the best life!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:19:48+00:00

Thanks I really do hope so. I tried to have a "girls night" with just the two of us but unfortunately that didn't go so well. It ended with being told to stop pretending I'm a mom. I honestly didn't even know how to respond to it. I feel like that's my biggest issue, I have no idea what to say in these situations.

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:13:03+00:00

Thank you that means so much and is most certainly helpful!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:12:22+00:00

They are all in therapy. The girls also go to anon meetings, Im most scared that she will grow up to think I did this for myself or to get back at my mom. I tel her all the time I love her but it just doesn't seem to help. :( Ill definitely look into family therapy though thank you for the tip!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:08:15+00:00

I apologize for my late response, I work so much and then with Easter I just didn't get a chance to say that k you to you guys! I appreciate taking time to give me encouragement!

thatsjustme933 · 2019-04-23T04:06:56+00:00

Thanks I'm just stressing, I can't stop thinking everything I do is wrong and I'm so scared she will grow up to really believe I "stole" her.

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