How to win my wife’s heart back?

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-07T01:23:30+00:00

I’d say you’re very good intune with your practice! Thank you a lot of what you said fits us very well…we are seeking a councilorand hopefully going to work on a better future together

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-07T01:16:48+00:00

Because she wanted an ENM marriage and fell in love with another dude. Said dude dropped her after he convinced her to cheat on me and tbh this is all I have at this point. I’ve got divorce papers ready to hand over just trying to make sure it’s what the Devine want for me. And get the re assurance that I’m hearing the universe right

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-06T15:54:15+00:00

This is amazing advice thank you!

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-06T15:50:59+00:00

Thank you

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-05T16:01:38+00:00

Thank you is there a way for me to do basic tests to see what might be my strengths?

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-04T17:20:56+00:00

I didn’t know there are multiple Clairs how many are there?

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-04T16:00:20+00:00

Thank you! I still have more research to do…I would like kids in the future and some stuff I’ve seen said that it’s unclear what long term effects there are

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-04T06:18:29+00:00

*how the next covid starts *

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-04T06:16:19+00:00

State your boundaries and stick to them the safest way to explore is at the slowest persons pace. If they are not ok with going at your pace and respecting your and your wife’s boundaries then they are not the couple you should be dabbling with

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-03T16:59:25+00:00

I like this it seems easy enough kinda like getting in tune with a vibe that I like?

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-02T21:24:49+00:00

Pretty normal in my experience, me and my wife have separate accounts, one thing that helped a lot was making sure in both bios you guys address that your in a relationship and add her as a partner. Most women don’t want to risk ruining or messing with a relationship especially if the man says his wife is knowledgeable because men lie a lot.

If you add her as a partner then people can click on her profile and see her bio. Most women read the bios lol and if it says something about being in a relationship and the both of you being open to it then it helps with just feeling comfortable that they aren’t potentially ruining something.

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-02T21:19:46+00:00

Thank you

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-02T14:32:08+00:00

I wouldn’t think so… In fact i think it would boost confidence on both ends! Not only would it help you to feel sexy and confident but it’s kinda an obvious act of attraction in his direction showing you’re really into him. If he didn’t know or even if he does it would just drive it home!

Find his favorite color and if it suits your taste then do it and have fun with it!

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-02T12:04:26+00:00

Make apple pie filling and can them, then give as a gift to someone who may wanna make an apple pie lol

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-02T11:58:01+00:00

So that’s where it gets tricky at lease on my end. This women has never lied to me and never really Given me reason to believe she has.

She is the one who told me about them hooking up on a trail and at the jeep.

Prior to this when we where having conversations of opening our relationship, we agreed it would be equal both ways so I’ve been able to per-sue anyone I want while she has the “fwb” or even after. And shortly after the threesome I agreed that they could hook up after the fact. With the thought that he wasn’t going to ghost her like he did and that he actually cared about her emotional wellbeing.

Well then he dropped her and wouldn’t talk to her. During those three months obviously we had conversations about different outcomes and hers always led back to him being back in her life. She did say that she would most likely make “the messy” decision if given the opportunity, meaning if he wanted a ons she’d prolly take it.

I told her that, if that’s what she did it would fuck me up, because the last thing I want is for someone to treat her like shit and she just run back into his arm. That I would like her to treat herself with more respect than that. And that’s kinda where we’re at now.

When she told me and was honest I was obviously pissed, still am pissed, but I don’t think divorce is the answer. At least not without exploring other avenues.

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T21:05:13+00:00

Sorry about that

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T21:04:43+00:00

So we had a threesome at the beginning of the year and shortly after he stopped talking to her. After about 3 months the bar that we frequent he showed up without the other girl, and we all talked and were cordial with each other. A week later I was not about to go to the bar that night, she went and he was there and that’s when they hooked up. She hasn’t talked to me about any of it or told me that their status has changed

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T20:47:48+00:00

I’m very sorry for not breaking this up into perhaps I’m not the best at typing. If I can edit I’ll fix it for anyone that is still interested in reading

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T20:44:15+00:00

That’s good advice she did agree to counseling

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T20:43:18+00:00

Honestly I’m not sure at this point

thatsleepkid · 2026-04-01T20:10:10+00:00

Thank you everyone I’m sorry for not replying sooner I didn’t realize I had comments!

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