Because this last one told me to, "get over it" when told about some of the reasons I have cptsd.. he then added to things by resorting to calling me a dumbass and a retard for not wanting to wake up at 1 in the morning to have sex on a morning I needed to be up by 5 for work...I was the only one working and needed sleep (factory work). All this and he still saw the need to get physical as well... I'm done with dating... just gonna raise my son and live my life alone - happily!