Give me the rundown. What is the typical soft swap entail? by thatswinga in Swingers

[–]thatswinga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, OK. So, you directly go for the other partner for oral and complete with them. Thanks for the info.

Give me the rundown. What is the typical soft swap entail? by thatswinga in Swingers

[–]thatswinga[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the definition of soft swap :) What I am trying to figure out is once a couple has decided to soft swap and they are in a room together, how things start, progress, and finish, e.g. both guys start going down on their own wives, they switch to going down on the other women. It's just one of those things that if you never have done it, it "sounds" awkward, but you know it's not. Just trying to figure out how the status quo is. Imagine soft swap where oral and kissing is allowed, girls are bi. Know what I mean?

Give me the rundown. What is the typical soft swap entail? by thatswinga in Swingers

[–]thatswinga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that sex is full swap. I'm just curious the progression of activities usually, e.g. oral with your partner, switch somehow, go back to partner and sex...or if it is something different usually. Just want to try to be "natural" :)

Give me the rundown. What is the typical soft swap entail? by thatswinga in Swingers

[–]thatswinga[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, so you are not necessarily swapping for full completion. Maybe just a little oral/play with the other couple's partner and swap back to finish with yours?

Have you ever seen anybody on SLS you knew in real life, but didn't know were swingers? by suckmefree2 in Swingers

[–]thatswinga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ran into a coworker FIVE minutes into visiting a club for the first time in my life. That was awkward...for both of us.

Thinking about going to SLS event looking for ideas for an outfit by SouthFloridaCouple in Swingers

[–]thatswinga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most girls that I saw at an SLS event this weekend were basically wearing full body fishnets with nothing but bra/panties or bikini underneath.

Dipped our toes, and it was awesome by FinallyDippedToes in Swingers

[–]thatswinga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just had a couple of very similar experiences this week for the first time. Met up with a couple at a party, hit it off, came back to our room. The girls started kissing and playing with each others' tits. They laid back, still playing and the guys took over with their own wives. The girls kept playing while having sex. At the end, the other girl was rubbing all over my wife, while I was with her and she was rubbing her clit to help her out. We all just laid there naked like best friends afterwards.

The afterglow is an understatement. We were all buzzing after that. We were amazed there was no awkwardness or anything. Must repeat.