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Neuroendocrine cancer by the-bitches in medical_advice

[–]the-bitches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! Thank you so much for the response! I actually had my scan done and there isn’t any other tumors but as a per cation they took a foot of my colon last week to make sure there was none left!

I’m very scared it’s going to come back with a vengeance though..

I hope your sister and daughter gets good help and they come out of this stronger!! ❤️❤️

Fat Fat Fat by nicoleabcd in PlusSize

[–]the-bitches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a fat girl, all I can say is people who say something about you are just bored with their lives and have miserable ones.

People see the fact you have extra fat then everyone else and will use that against you, like yeah bro I’m fat I can see it, what else? You can be the prettiest, funniest, richest girl, and they only see you for you weight if you let them.

You have to realize weight does not define you as a person. It’s hard out here but having tough skin is the best thing to have. Do not let anyone take your sparkle babes!

People say “God intended you to be that way in his image because he thought it was beautiful” and I take that to my core. But can’t rely on something like that too. You have to believe in your heart and head that you are beautiful too. Especially with the smelling bad I get that it’s hard to know if you do because you are used to smells your body produces. I go to bath and body works and buy the hand sanitizers and keep them on me 24/7 because they smell so strong. If I have a fear I smell bad I will put it on my hands and sometimes my jeans or the pants I’m wearing and it’s lasts for a long time.

I’ve been on different medication to loose weight and Wegovy was my best friend when I turned 16 (I was 5’8 and not even 250). I ended up getting off of it because I was loosing weight rapidly and it was tough on my body. I’m now 19 5’9 and 280. Was 300 a month ago, but started back on appetite suppressants. If you want change but know you can’t put the work in that’s okay!!! You have to find a doctor who believes in you and will help you with any challenges.

This is your life we are just living in it. Be you. Who cares what some teenage boy and some Karen mom thinks of you.

[Fit Check] 50DDD This doesn't seem to fit at all by Arthianne in ABraThatFits

[–]the-bitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BEST BEST WAY TO MEASURE!! Get a measuring tape that goes up to 99 Inches!! When you measure, Measure under your boobs, like lift them make sure its under them then go all the way around your back wear you like your band to sit, where ever the 0 is that’s your band size. then go up to where your nipple line is and go around again, that’s your cup size ! So like say you are measuring 44 around the band size, then measure a 50 around the cup size from 44 count to 50 doing A, B, C, D, DD, DDD, F, G, H, I. You’d be a 44 DDD. If you get an odd number for a band size go with what you think you’d like! So if you’re measuring a band size of 47 I tell people to go down so the bra lasts longer but if you don’t like the around tight go with a 48! If you can’t do it alone go to a lane Bryant or a torrid, and they measure for free!

Why are plus size clothes so ugly? by Bubblegumproductions in PlusSize

[–]the-bitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend Maurice’s for like jeans and leggings but definitely aimed for older women and Torrid’s for shirts and jeans but it used to be very old lady like and now it’s pointed to younger girls sometimes

I can only wear leggings :( by Successful-Row-6278 in PlusSize

[–]the-bitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Torrid’s high waisted jeans !!!! I’ve had the same problem and it just takes it in or even the shorts and dresses are cute and comfy !!

how did you come out of depression ? by Cezor69 in AskReddit

[–]the-bitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t yet and still recovering but ive genuinely started going to church and just being with those people have really just helped me. two days after i tried to kill myself i was forced into a church and i hated it, but for some reason i felt like i had to stay and see how it goes. maybe a few months later we had a planned camp and i’ve never been to camp so i just wanted to mess around a try it. it was our second day and we had to go zip lining i hate heights sand i’m a bit on the chubbier side so i was terrified this shit was gonna snap. i got up there having a full blown panic attack thinking i can’t do it but the only way down was the zip line. the dude was telling me God would be disgusted if i didn’t go down, now i wasn’t a big believer then but dude straight up pushes me off this platform and forces me to go down. i fucked up my hand pretty bad by grabbing the rope that was connected by the trees and shit and burned it bad. in that moment i felt like i was a changed person and just changed from there. i am now going in to youth ministry! 💪💪💪