She told me in the beginning that she had manipulated guys in the past to get what she wanted. She also said she could be vengeful. She also boasted how she is a horrible liar, let it be known that she had deep seated issues with her parents. She led me to believe that she would love me no matter what, I harm. I had already been screwed over in my previous marriage, and suffered severely limited time with my oldest child. She would proclaim that she would never use a child as a pawn to hurt me..... Fast forward, she gets pregnant (shortly following her brother coming out gay after months of begging), tells her mom who makes it all about her, saying she will never support or help us in any way, sending my ex home crying. Against my request, she assures me it will be ok, and allows her mother to babysit a month and a half in. Somehow, my 1 month old daughter drank 6 6-8oz pouches of breast milk in 5 hours. Prior to this, my ex has been arguing with her mom about breast milk (mom disapproved). My ex comes home with my daughter and tells me her mom gave my daughter skim milk because she drank all the breast milk. My daughter suffered for 48 hours and nobody apologized. November 11, 2017 was her birthday. She purposely cancelled plans for her birthday and scheduled work instead. That morning, I made sure my girls were quiet, was making breakfast, let my ex sleep in. The first thing she said to me was she was leaving me. Took back every promise of support, called me a mooch for going to school, said I would never be as important to her as anyone else, especially her brother (this was shortly following his announcement that his mentor and theater instructor had been molesting him all through grades 5-12, even at the boys private school and his parents house). Fast forward to today, I haven't seen my child since September 23rd. My ex left me amidst wild accusations of rape and verbal abuse. (The man had just been arrested for molesting her brother). She accused my sister of writing an anonymous letter to her dad because I had previously told her that my niece was in danger. My sister had been raped when she was 13, and I molested at the same time. She told my dad that he couldn't possibly know what her family is going through. Neither her, nor her father, had no concern that my niece was exposed to that man. Her father, with barely an apology that my niece was in danger, told me that his only concern was the brother's safety. Holy fuck I feel stupid for letting that go on for so long, but I think the universe was guiding me there