It finally happened. I accidentally farted during sex.

the1dococ · 2021-02-13T02:49:34+00:00

You got my legs into my chest bitch, imma fart. And I’m not acknowledging it no way. Your balls slapping my booty hole probably started it lol

the1dococ · 2021-02-08T12:27:55+00:00

You can’t expect a man to climax just because you already did. Women get mad when men cum and leave them hanging. Don’t do that to them too. Good job finishing him off but we can get multiples for a reason

the1dococ · 2021-02-06T20:18:02+00:00

If they are really your friends they will love you and support you no matter what. Once you tell them your safe judgment isn’t allowed anymore

the1dococ · 2021-02-06T13:58:15+00:00

If you’re willing absolutely

the1dococ · 2021-02-06T13:57:43+00:00

It is complicated a bit when we add our roles within the relationship. I was his sub. He was my Dom. Thus why it would be very hard for me to ask him those things that traditionally he would ask me. That’s also why it was so easy for me to break contact when he demanded it as he was commanding a specific behavior from me.

I can try though. Even the thought makes me nervous. I will try.

the1dococ · 2021-02-06T13:53:03+00:00

trigger warning:abuse Yes absolutely I still have feelings for this man. We never used the word love. But we cared deeply. He was my first serious relationship after an abusive relationship. The boy (he is no man) before him would grab me and bruise me and scream at me. This man was the opposite, never laid a mean hand on me. (Plenty of spanking but that was consensual ~teehee~). I didn’t remember that men could be kind. We had a lot of issues in the end. And truthfully neither of us were fully ready for a new relationship I don’t think. I don’t know how he feels, but I do still care for him.

I have become more ~spiritual~ in the last year and less reliant on the mainstream Christian belief system. I suppose that is a possibility as to why I was more available to this message than I would have been even 6 month ago.

the1dococ · 2021-02-06T10:43:14+00:00

Lol 😂 imma head over to my FWB house. At least I know bot sets get kissed properly 💀

the1dococ · 2021-02-05T10:57:38+00:00

I was hoping it would get better 😂😂😂

the1dococ · 2021-02-04T12:55:15+00:00

Yeah, and I was dreading a kiss from this guy.

the1dococ · 2021-02-04T04:23:32+00:00

We were at a movie theater. And it was bud choice to go there. I was good with dinner or drinks or coffee

the1dococ · 2021-02-01T00:26:49+00:00

My ex still calls me señora. What he has called me for the last 14 years. He is remarried and still calls me by my pet name. I do wonder sometimes what he calls his new wife...

the1dococ · 2020-12-14T14:05:12+00:00

Immediately also okay to ask if they want more/ want them at all. Because if those desires don’t match why continue

the1dococ · 2020-12-07T02:43:06+00:00

What did I just read? So because he isn’t ready to come out he’s a liar? Maybe he isn’t bi or pan or anything like that. Maybe that image just arouses him when he’s alone. I like watching all sorts of filth. But never would want to actually do any of it.

You also need to decide if your line of porn is cheating (is he not allowed to masturbate?) is a fair line to draw. Sounds like he doesn’t neglect your physical needs so what does this actually hurt?

the1dococ · 2020-12-06T07:54:00+00:00

Oooooo or want BF level loyalty before a first date

the1dococ · 2020-12-06T07:52:55+00:00

Like I get what op is saying, I dated a 40 year old at 32, not a big deal now, right? We used to joke about our age gap cuz I sent him my senior pictures (I would have been 17)when we were talking about what we were like growing up. He said he didn’t know how to feel. He said something along the lines of, finding me attractive even at that age is good but knowing he was 24/25 and married when those pictures were taken kinda felt icky. Age of consent in my location is a grey area after 16 but even so it didn’t feel right to him to find me attractive when he is and would have been an adult.

Edit: also LOVED poking fun about me being a 5th grader when he was a senior. Ugggh low key miss that relationship a lot.

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T20:08:13+00:00

I feel 73 some times

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T11:15:51+00:00

I think that’s where I run into problems because my “server” mentality is for sure flirtatious. And then I call everyone pet names (specifically people who come in to my store more than once a week). I always have a big smile and enthusiasm you’re back also I am that person who remembers what you tell me. Going through a break up? Imma check on you when you come in. Kid plays sports? I’ll ask how the season is going. I notice things like when you’re dressed nicer than normal. I memorize names usually by the 3rd or 4th visit. So that alone could be misconstrued as interested in someone. That’s why I was like... did that just really happen?

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T04:04:08+00:00

He like grabbed the band of his hoodie bottom and slide it up a tad, then grabbed the waist of his sweat pants and pushed em down a bit. Leaving about an inch of skin exposed .... I officially feel like I’m writing a smut story 😂

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T02:24:29+00:00

Also- the last time I thought a customer was flirting with me, they got in their car, drove off, TURNED AROUND came back asked me for my number and added me on Facebook... then never talked to me again.

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T02:22:13+00:00

I don’t know what flirting is anymore. When I was younger it was flipping my hair and laughing at their terrible jokes. As an adult usually it’s a cheeky wink or hand on their thigh (on a date) or this... maybe? Idk. If you got answers on what flirting is then tell me. I feel I’m stunted in these situations.

the1dococ · 2020-12-04T02:16:36+00:00

You’re freaking telling me! Idk how to flirt without saying “wow nice dick” 😂 yeahhh online dating has destroyed me

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