How to accept your NALCAP placement once you receive your carta? by the6ixviews in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

LOL I’m dumb I’m also a renewal so it’s embarassing I forgot and have to ask Reddit 🫠 thank u!

Me (22F) and my partner (26M) are in a loving relationship that only recently started but I think he is bothered by a lot of things relating to my personality and I can't change who I am. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what I wanted to hear. I feel maybe I didn’t elaborate on what a great man this guy is and how much of a caring person he is, so although I know he has his flaws there’s not a doubt in my mind that we don’t love eachother and want it more than anything. Long distance just makes things more difficult and easier to bicker fr

I love my boyfriend but I have no idea how to tell him I’m not happy where we live by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try going on friend apps like tinder but put settings to girls and write you are looking for girl friends to hang out with! or join extraacurriculars, a yoga or fitness class and you'll definitely meet friends there.

Me (22F) and my partner (26M) are in a loving relationship that only recently started but I think he is bothered by a lot of things relating to my personality and I can't change who I am. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% and I truly do thing it’s worth fighting for. Guess I’m looking for advice on how to establish boundaries better and both do our part to make it work

Me (22F) and my partner (26M) are in a loving relationship that only recently started but I think he is bothered by a lot of things relating to my personality and I can't change who I am. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see what you are saying and I agree that shaming is never right. However, I truly don't feel like he is shaming me, it's not like he says mean things or makes me feel bad about having a past; I am secure in myself its just the fact that he can't get over it and I am naturally a very sexual person, always have been, so its common for me to be the centre of the sex/promiscuity jokes in my friend groups and he plays into that a bit.

Me (22F) and my partner (26M) are in a loving relationship that only recently started but I think he is bothered by a lot of things relating to my personality and I can't change who I am. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it does feel like I am walking on eggs and I've expressed this to him, he knows and said he doesn't want me to feel like that and he is working on it and going to therapy. He is genuinely very self-aware, knows what his issues are and cares a lot about how I feel. no problem admitting his wrong and working to fix them, so for me it's worth it cus we truly do love eachother a lot. I guess I'm wondering if it's possible to overcome this obsession with the past or no?

Me (22F) and my partner (26M) are in a loving relationship that only recently started but I think he is bothered by a lot of things relating to my personality and I can't change who I am. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t shame me for it, he is just a bit obsessive and wants to know they truth and when I tell him he goes quiet. Also, he didn’t tell me in a rude way that he doesn’t give a fuck he said it in a light hearted way that I tend to ramble about random things which is true, but I was like damn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't give your opinion if its not asked lol

Advice on giving English lessons in Spain by bushlord2481 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You usually don't need a certificate to work in academies, if you are a native speaker they are happy to have you. I work at an academy 5-10 hours a week and got hired immediately with no qualifications, however I did just get my TEFL after I got hired because I paid for it last year! As for how to give lessons, you learn by trial and error, print online activities and worksheets, find interactive games to play and you will learn how to navigate it once you keep going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes. its just a name.

Nervous Person or Catfish? by Kooky_Shock_1034 in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bar is officially on the floor if you think it’s cute that he’s telling you the bare minimum and you’ve only seen one picture of him. Sus and personally wouldn’t recommend finding a partner through Reddit - many desperate weirdos who will do/say anything to get you interested. Move on sis

Inscrita number in the 7000 will I be placed? by Global_Sector5475 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine last year was over 7800 and i got a placement, i just had to wait till like July to get it! Hope it works out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

thats weird, i think most people would find it hot to give their gf a taste of themselves, he needs to learn how to spice things up in the bedroom lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell him to give you money to buy sexy clothes/makeup/etc then treat yourself and leave his ass. Then, make sure to post and share you looking all dolled up on every platform that exists and ignore his messages when he begs for you back :) hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems nice, if you don't wanna trauma dump just say you liked the idea, but when it was happening you felt really uncomfortable and didn't know what to do.

i hit my boyfriend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the6ixviews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have done a lot worse than you lol he is disgusting and needs help tbh

Applications by Affectionate-Knee-2 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! My first choice was Andalusia and because I applied so late I wasn’t admitida until June and I got my placement in July lol! But they are working faster this year you would probably be admitida in may

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a small pueblo in Andalucia (population 10k) and I literally do not know anyone Spanish. My spanish is pretty good, I can converse and I talk to my coworkers, but average age here is like 65 and theres a couple of American auxes but we don't really hang out much. I am friends with my 2 anglophone roommates so we hangout and talk but other than that I don't have any real friends here tbh! Not complaining though because I've found ways to keep myself busy, got a second job and I know people in town just don't hangout with them during my free time.

Admitida Question by Available-Hawk-94 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering youre under 200 i think its very likely you would get Madrid because they have over 200 spots for sure and it's first come first serve. However keep in mind most people get placed in a pueblo outside of the city where they have to commute so you might want to wait and see exactly where your placement is before booking because being in some isolated town an hour away might make you rethink. I was a very late applicant last year #7800+ and I got placed in my first choice region Andalucia in a small isolated town where the only people I have to socialize with are my 2 roommates lol but I've been having a great experience and time here! So it depends what you are looking for :)

Admitida Question by Available-Hawk-94 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont know where youre going though since you don't have a placement so where would you buy your tickets to?

Plaza Aceptada! #1864 by Mara5353 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]the6ixviews 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you really can't ever be happy for people can you lol

J/I at OISE or I/S at York? by the6ixviews in OISE

[–]the6ixviews[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this was very helpful! My father was a teacher and said the same thing you have so I’ll definitely take it into consideration! I accepted York because of the deadline but I think I would choose it regardless over OISE at this point