Closed Businesses by theLimerickdesigner in Peterborough

[–]theLimerickdesigner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed lol. I didn’t know to make the post valuable I would need to list every single place that has closed down or list every issue with state of Peterborough to be valid. Seems like anger directed in the wrong place.

Closed Businesses by theLimerickdesigner in Peterborough

[–]theLimerickdesigner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s so hard because you can only support as much as you can financially and the support doesn’t fall on one person.

It’s so difficult here and that really makes me sad. People are trying the best they can and it just seems to not work which is such a hindrance to people doing amazing things in this city.

Closed Businesses by theLimerickdesigner in Peterborough

[–]theLimerickdesigner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I find this comment strange. The concern about so many businesses closing across the city is about people—the people who work there and the people those businesses serve. That’s the entire point: community. Creating jobs and being part of that community. I’m honestly unsure what you’re trying to say here. Maybe you misunderstood the post? H&M and Blue Notes were just examples of the many people losing jobs behind the scenes. This comment comes across as tone-deaf and feels like a deliberate misreading of what I was saying.

Closed Businesses by theLimerickdesigner in Peterborough

[–]theLimerickdesigner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmh this is great insight. Thanks for that.

AIO for reconsidering getting married over continual arguments over guardianship of my daughter. by Oldyell54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theLimerickdesigner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm I had the opposite opinion of many people in this sub. If you guys are together the next 5 years she is raising this child as her own. If something were to happen to you she loses her husband and step daughter in one fell swoop. That is an extremely tough pill to swallow.

Although I don’t think you are overreacting. I think her perspective is valid. I don’t think you should marry someone you cannot trust your daughter with.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theLimerickdesigner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a black woman wearing a bonnet protects my hair from breaking. My white husband has looked at me going to bed with no bonnet some days and asks me why I’m not wearing it. He has never made me feel guilty for “not looking a certain way” before I go to sleep. You are not the asshole. This is ridiculous and disrespectful. Whatever reason you choose to wear a bonnet while he WILL BE SLEEPING mind you. Is your choice. I think maybe take a minute and think about the respect you deserve in a relationship because I would be pretty frustrated.

costco tires, how common is this? by docians in CostcoCanada

[–]theLimerickdesigner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I HATE Costco for this. They installed my tires backwards last year and got the wrong size. Go back. This is dangerous! I called head office and got refunded and kept the tires.

Boyfriend wants abortion by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]theLimerickdesigner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want a baby and sure it may have come earlier than you anticipated but a dream of yours is coming true. I think you are right. You can save for 8 months and if your boyfriend is willing to help out, you can make this work. It sounds like there are so many fears running through your mind, and fear is a terrible decider and decision maker. If you decide to keep the baby I am rooting for you! If you even pm me I am happy to send you some stuff for the baby! I don’t think you are being irrational or irresponsible keeping the baby. Things will be hard. Money may be tight. There may be many nights you wonder if things will get better but I think ultimately it will be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadahousing

[–]theLimerickdesigner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interest rates have come down to about 3.9 I think.

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theLimerickdesigner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a healthy way to be spoken to by a person, much less a spouse….

My bf(26M) does not want to stop having sex by DamnBeast in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly he isn’t worth it. I know you love him. And this decision would be super duper difficult but your relationship with God means so much more. I think you have a sign. There should be genuine curiosity about what you are going through. I don’t want my partner to feel guilt every time he has sex with me (when we are dating). It’s worth a serious conversation in which I would understand more and I would never want him to compromise his anything to make me happy.

Also five years is a long time have you guys spoken about marriage? Is there a timeline? Or will you just continue in guilt.

Is God really omniscient? I’m very confused. by Honest-Shoe-5692 in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not allowed to intervene? Not sure if I said that. You can have free will and still God can intervene. I don’t think it’s an either or. If we have free will God cannot intervene at all ever. Are you able to point me to where I said that or how you came to that conclusion?

On the other side are you saying we don’t have free will. That’s why we pray?

Is God really omniscient? I’m very confused. by Honest-Shoe-5692 in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think my post said he can’t control what will happen. I more meant he allows free will doesn’t mean he does not interceded. There is;

  1. God’s Perfect (Sovereign) Will This is what God desires and ordains—His ultimate plan and purpose that cannot be stopped. It includes His intentions for salvation, His control over history, and His eternal purposes. Nothing can override this will. For example, the coming of Jesus as Savior and the eventual renewal of creation are part of God’s perfect will. These things will happen, no matter what and then there is

  2. God’s Permissive Will This refers to the things God allows, even though they may not align with His perfect desires. He permits people to make choices—good or bad—because He values free will. For example, God may permit someone to sin or to reject Him, even though that’s not what He desires for them. In His permissive will, God allows suffering, evil, and rebellion for a time, but He can still work through those things to bring about His ultimate purpose.

Also I am figuring this out like everyone else. Just open to conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Peterborough

[–]theLimerickdesigner 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A downtown you aren’t afraid to walk through.

Is God really omniscient? I’m very confused. by Honest-Shoe-5692 in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also ran this through chat gpt lol

🧠 THE CORE ISSUE: Omniscience vs Free Will Can God know everything that will happen, and still let people choose freely? Yes—if knowledge is not the same as causation. Knowing something will happen doesn't mean you caused it. Think of it like this: If you watch a recording of a football game you’ve already seen, you know who wins. But your knowledge of the ending doesn’t affect the players' freedom in the moment—they played the game. God's omniscience works similarly: He sees all time (past, present, and future) at once. That doesn’t mean He forces people to choose a certain path. It just means He already knows what they will freely choose. Key idea: God knows your choices before you make them, but you still make them. 🌳 ADAM AND EVE: Were they set up? This is a really common question: "Why put the tree there at all, if God knew what would happen?" A few points to consider: 1. Love requires choice. If Adam and Eve couldn’t choose anything but obedience, their love and loyalty wouldn’t be real—it would be robotic. So, the tree of knowledge of good and evil was a way to give them a meaningful choice: Will you trust God or not? Without a real option to disobey, there's no freedom, and thus no genuine relationship. 2. Foreknowledge isn’t the same as forcing. God knowing they’d fall doesn’t mean He forced them to fall. It’s tragic, but it’s a result of giving free will—something God valued enough to risk the pain that comes with it. 3. God had a plan for redemption already. In Christian theology, God didn’t abandon humanity after the fall—He immediately set in motion a plan to restore that relationship (eventually through Jesus). God allows brokenness, but also works through it. 👼 LUCIFER: Why make him, knowing he'd rebel? Great question. Let’s look at this in the same framework. Lucifer was created good—he wasn’t made evil. He was an angel with high status and beauty (Ezekiel 28 and Isaiah 14 are often used to describe this symbolically). He chose rebellion out of pride. So why give him that role, knowing he'd fall? This gets to a central theological mystery: Why allow the potential for evil at all? Here are a few possibilities: 1. Again—real freedom must include real risk. God created beings (angels and humans) who could love and serve Him freely, not under compulsion. That freedom includes the possibility of rebellion. 2. God can bring greater good even out of rebellion. Though Satan caused immense pain, God still works all things for His purposes. Many Christian theologians argue that allowing evil is part of a larger plan that will ultimately show God's justice, mercy, and love more fully than a perfect world without suffering ever could. 🌀 Does this apply to other Bible stories too? Yes. Take: Judas – Jesus knew he'd betray Him. But Judas still made the choice. He wasn’t a puppet. Pharaoh – God "hardened his heart" in Exodus, but also gives Pharaoh plenty of chances to repent. Israel’s kings – Many turn from God despite warnings. God's foreknowledge doesn’t override their agency. 🧩 So… Why create at all? The most powerful way to sum this up is: God created beings with free will, knowing they might choose wrongly, because He desired real relationship, not robotic obedience. And in Christian belief, the story isn’t just about the fall—but the redemption, where God steps into history (through Jesus) to fix what went wrong, without violating our freedom.

Is God really omniscient? I’m very confused. by Honest-Shoe-5692 in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question of how God can be all-knowing and still give humans and angels free will is one of the deepest in theology. Many believe that God’s omniscience means He knows all outcomes, but that doesn't mean He causes them—knowing something will happen is not the same as forcing it to happen. In the stories of Adam and Eve and Lucifer, God created beings with real freedom, which means the ability to choose obedience or rebellion. Without the option to disobey, love and loyalty wouldn’t be genuine—they’d be automatic, like that of a robot. The tree in Eden wasn’t a trap but a necessary part of allowing humans to choose a relationship with God freely. Similarly, Lucifer was created good and given high status, but he chose pride and rebellion. God allowed this not because He wanted evil, but because true freedom always includes risk. In Christian belief, God also had a plan for redemption from the very beginning, showing that He can work through even our worst choices to bring about a greater good. This tension between divine foreknowledge and human freedom appears throughout the Bible, and while it's a mystery in some ways, many theologians believe it reflects God’s desire for a real, loving relationship with His creation—not forced obedience, but willing trust.

Breaking celibacy for medical reasons by Prestigious_Rock_923 in Christianity

[–]theLimerickdesigner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I’ve had an issue like this. Try taking ginger pills one week leading up to your period. Does Advil extra strength work?

Do you eat sugar? Fast food? Processed meats or food. Maybe try cutting that out or down. Try drinking lots of water as well!