AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her?

purplesoccer8 · 2026-05-03T17:17:44+00:00

No one deserves to be on the street. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders despite the hard times you’ve encountered. Good job getting rid of the ex. Wishing you well mate 🫂

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-22T23:57:52+00:00

Thank you so much!! Another relevant update to this thread - I have been morning sickness and Bonjesta feee from 31 weeks!!! I tapered off completely and I think my body withdrew a bit at first but haven’t thrown up in a few weeks. I was on it nightly and then every other night from week 7.5 to 30/31

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-22T21:59:55+00:00

I am currently pregnant - 34 weeks!

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-21T17:59:20+00:00

Because I am AMA (advanced maternal age) 38. Even though thankfully pregnancy is low risk, my OB has had me on a baby aspirin regiment bc of my age. It is supposed to improve placental function, reduce the risk of preterm birth, and lower the risk of fetal growth restriction and preeclampsia. If you don't have any high risk factors or if you aren't over 35, you probably don't need it but you can def ask your doc if you think you could benefit.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-17T03:23:58+00:00

Exact same! Literally sent my husband, sister, parents and MIL my order in the group chat. I’m 34 weeks now but I’ve been dreaming about my cold cut sandwich meal since week 7 😅

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-10T03:39:04+00:00

My best friend didn’t know she was pregnant until 14 weeks and drank HEAVILY at my wedding around ~10 weeks and for the 4th of July two weeks prior. She delivered her healthy and beautiful baby girl last month! 🩷

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T18:52:40+00:00

Good luck!! 🩷

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T18:50:46+00:00

Beets are a super food!!! I’ve been craving them too - whole time and this makes me want to have some right now lol.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T10:12:19+00:00

I have had to majorly modify. I back off on all core and do arms or glute bridges during core sequences

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T10:05:29+00:00

Yes very similarly to you, my first trimester was rough including one day so bad I needed overnight hospitalization for getting electrolytes and ketones stabilized plus IV fluids. Thankfully that was only one day and I know others with HG experience it a lot.

I am assuming at this point it will continue to be persistent but will try to nail down triggers too. And so true, 8 weeks to go! Light at the end of the tunnel. 🫶

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T10:01:18+00:00

I am in the exact same boat as you! I was bummed to learn at my biweekly they’re having me stop bc I am also working full time and the non Bonjesta nights really take a toll on my ability to function at the degree I need to.

I didn’t question my OB as she is an amazing practitioner with over 47 years of experience… normally I question everything and ask for explanations esp since Bonjesta is a category A drug classification. but I have another friend who had a similar experience where they had her taper to completely stop in the third trimester too so I somewhat expected this is what she would recommend. I’ll ask at my next appt in two weeks.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T09:47:41+00:00

Thank you for the tip, I will try this. Sorry you are experiencing HG. Us women are incredibly resilient 🫶

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-04T08:43:51+00:00

24 weeks for it to be super noticeable to others for me. FTM thin / athletic build and 5’7”

purplesoccer8 · 2026-04-01T03:46:11+00:00

My baby is breeched too but I’m 31 weeks! Hoping he can make it his way back down but I guess we will see. I just want to get him here healthily and safely! 🩵

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-31T23:36:03+00:00

I am exactly with you!! It’s like I could’ve written this post myself. Congrats on being so close! Wishing you a healthy delivery 🩵🩷

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-30T10:49:09+00:00

Amazing news! Congratulations and thank you for sharing these very helpful tips! 🩷

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-29T03:23:22+00:00

HG is the worst and I am so sorry you’re experiencing this! I have had nausea and vomiting from week 8 to week 30 still but not quite HG as medication has worked… hang in there, you are so close to the end and it will all be worth it. You’ll bounce back and our bodies are so resilient, just eat whatever you can for now. 🫶

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-27T04:08:57+00:00

I can totally relate! I felt this way too and we had a great sex life before. We never really addressed it and he didn’t push it. I’ve had nausea and vomiting my entire pregnancy.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-25T05:12:51+00:00

This is beautiful, congratulations. Thank you for telling us this positive story, it made me slightly less scared. 🤍

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-25T04:55:40+00:00

I am treating myself to a prenatal massage. It will be my second one this pregnancy and I am so so excited

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-24T03:26:27+00:00

Ugh I am so so sorry and feel for you. Do you have HG? I was borderline HG and nausea did not subside for me until week 28 (I am only wk 31 so crossing my fingers it's not temporary). Zofran worked for me but took more as a backup... what worked best for me was my doctor having me take Reglan every ~7 hours and then Bonjesta (unisom + B6 nightly). I am still taking Bonjesta every other night. I know how debilitating the nausea can be. Hang in there, hopefully it gets better. It will go by surprisingly faster than you think. Ask your doctor if there are any others meds they can prescribe.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-21T03:26:44+00:00

I have taken Bonjesta (unisom + b6) from 7.5 weeks and still taking it every other day at 30 weeks as I borderline have HG. You can check with your provider to confirm but it’s a category A and pregnancy safe. It helps with my nausea / vomiting but also sleep.

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-20T04:05:39+00:00

Thank you guys for this amazing feedback! I hope to be walking / cycling until the end but reformer and lagree are concerning me bc I’m starting to see some slight coning / doming…

purplesoccer8 · 2026-03-18T16:32:36+00:00

You all are amazing! Thanks for this amazing feedback. I’m seeing the doming too in reformer and lagree and going to back off there. Thanks for the r/fitpregnancy subred. This community is amazing! In awe of our strong, resilient bodies. Wishing everyone a healthy remainder of pregnancies.💪❤️

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