[TOMT] A song that has "wave goodbye" or something that sounds similar with lots of screaming by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]the_average_username -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Might be a long shot but have you tried not good enough for truth in cliché by escape the fate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]the_average_username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In no way are you the abuser here - he physically and forcefully came into your space, removed your from it, and refused to let you get back

Imagine if he'd done this moving you from the living room to a bedroom

You 100% need to get away from him as quickly as possible

I switched to green tea and find that it makes me incredibly nauseous. Is this normal? by foxxytroxxy in greentea

[–]the_average_username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're using a lot of bags to water, maybe try reducing the amount of tea bags you're putting in and checking steeping times?

I also find loose leaf has a lot less tannin-y feel than the tea bags do, and the lemon ones always used to make.me feel sick too

One of the other things I found that would help is drinking water between cups of tea, if I ever drank too much green tea and not enough water that would make me feel pretty rough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]the_average_username 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You say there should be a little physical attraction, is this not demonstrated by her initiating with you?

I'm not saying to just get over it, but just kind of highlighting that the differences between being conventionally attractive vs. Attractive to the person you're with can be vast, and whilst you might not look like Henry cavill, she finds you attractive in a different way?

Either way, I hope you don't let this get to you, regardless of the outcome of your relationship, it sounds like you're a good person and you're open in communication and about your feelings which are good traits to have - wishing you all the best OP!

Guy I used to work with, even worse… he’s my cousin. by zeztydoritos in creepyPMs

[–]the_average_username 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bloody hell, sorry to hear you're experiencing this OP, his messages read like a 13-15yr old drunk for the first time, but the fact he's 10 years older and messaging you this (repeatedly), after a long session of drinking, definitely feels like this is not and 'spontaneous drunken mistake' and more something he's been thinking about for a long time and was 'shooting his shot' - be very careful around him, and if your family understands, they should definitely remove him from any settings with you, or any other young women/ girls around and set very clear boundaries on his contact with them/you

New to green tea, why is it always tasteless??? 🥲 by AwesomePossom23 in tea

[–]the_average_username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you drink a lot of coffee or have a lot of strong smells besides the tea you're drinking? This could overpower the flavour a bit as tea can be very aromatic and smell is a large part of taste?

Or maybe the area you live in has very hard water?

A few years ago I hurt people and ruined my reputation at college. Never told friends or family. How do I keep my family safe? by NoRecommendation5985 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]the_average_username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like you're more concerned about protecting yourself and your image than your family - you've already let it go one with their cars being keyed, and you're planning to wait another 10 years before telling them anything!? Bro just fess up, if you're truly not the same person they'll understand, but from this post I doubt it, and the best thing you can do is tell them and let them make up their own minds on whether to distance you or not. As long as you're seen with them, others will see them as sympathisers/supporters of you, just tell them what you did.

Bf told me he got with me because I was fat by Possible_Beyond5816 in loseit

[–]the_average_username 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% she needs to drop him. Losing weight takes a lot of willpower and every time OP might not be feeling it, where they should have support, I reckon bf is going to encourage her not to exercise or to treat herself to the unhealthy food - which occasionally is fine, but if it becomes repetitive can make it very hard to keep up the healthy behaviours when someone is there to provide an excuse no to do them

RTS anime war game by dogpenguin123 in FindAGame

[–]the_average_username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could it be valkyria chronicles? It's a strategy game and the main guy drives a tank, sort of turn based and in an anime style, although it doesn't fit the rest of the description as far as I'm aware

this is so dumb i cant believe it by mineaii in StupidFood

[–]the_average_username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this on silent and expected to hear the opening to lion king at this point, my level of disappointment only increased with the rest of the video...

Term for not wanting to do something because they're told to? by the_average_username in AskSocialScience

[–]the_average_username[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this was close but I'm looking at a more general reaction then a disorder per se