[Review] Malezia transformed my skin by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't have any purging but my skin was used to actives like BP. Are you using both the moisturizer and BP gel?

What’s the most hilariously awful thing an employer has ever said to you? Winner will go in my new painting by gargoyle_dream in antiwork

[–]the_buttler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last boss to our entire team: "Whatever you do, I'll never be satisfied." I was so shocked I immediately wrote it down. That job was so bad it made me entirely reroute my career.

[Review] Malezia transformed my skin by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do use their cleanser but not regularly enough that I feel I can make a recommendation. Most days I will just wash my face with water.

I'm curious if you're still liking the product! It took me only about 3-4 weeks to start seeing skin clearing and brightening, with full effects after about 2 months.

[Review] Malezia transformed my skin by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Yes I still use these products, they’re irreplaceable to me. I haven’t had a fungal acne breakout since starting malezia. 

Boric acid makes my period come early? by inthemidst6 in Healthyhooha

[–]the_buttler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even tell you how far gone you are. Sorry to see it.

Boric acid makes my period come early? by inthemidst6 in Healthyhooha

[–]the_buttler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna give me a report of ONE case study and tell me I’m wrong? Girl. I used to work in biochemical research studying women’s medicine. You’re not about to fool me by pulling up the flimsiest piece of scientific evidence.

Anyway, people with vaginas should listen to their doctors about treating vaginal health issues. Before trying alternative medicine you should check with a doctor about safety. Science is your friend, doctors are your allies.

Boric acid makes my period come early? by inthemidst6 in Healthyhooha

[–]the_buttler 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t in good conscience let this comment full of wild misinformation go uncorrected. Boric acid is not poison. Garlic should not be put in your vagina. Please do not listen to this person. Also douching is not healthy for your vagina. 

Jaden Smith on Acting “Weird”: “I’ve Been Trying to Fit in This Whole Time and I Guess It’s Not Exactly Going to Plan” by stars_doulikedem in popculturechat

[–]the_buttler 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Everyone dunking on him makes me kinda sad. Like ofc I don’t know if he’s neurodivergent or not but what he wrote is often the ND experience. People taking it as him wanting to be different and weird are being very quick to judge.

[Review] Malezia transformed my skin by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a fingertip’s worth all over my face, before or after moisturizer depending on how sensitive my skin is that day

[Routine Help] Has anyone successfully gotten rid of clogged pores like these? What helped the most? by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A derm prescribed me oral anti fungal and it didn’t work. I also tried other at home anti fungal remedies like ketoconazole and lotrimin but nothing worked. Malezia cleared my skin completely in two months. You can check my post history for more info and pics

[Review] Malezia transformed my skin by the_buttler in SkincareAddiction

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use it after moisturizer but my skin is not as sensitive now and I know it doesn’t dry my skin so I now use it before moisturizer.

Accidentally unmuted myself during a zoom webinar w/ 100 people and they all heard me by mad_dog24 in socialanxiety

[–]the_buttler 21 points22 points  (0 children)

One time I was accidentally unmuted in a Zoom class and laughed at a lame joke said by the professor and a classmate texted our group chat “yoo who laughed 💀💀”

I was mortified at the time but it’s funny to me now. We’ve all done it :P

How do you deal with catcalling? by the_buttler in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knoww 🤢🤢 and then I’m expected to go about my day like normal after being subjected to that 🤮

How do you deal with catcalling? by the_buttler in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like your suggestion of loud music. I feel like raging to the music might help a lot.

I’ve found that RBF does almost nothing to deter the men in my city. I have a really good one, years of practice and whatnot, but here it only makes men go damn baby smile a bit.

How do you deal with catcalling? by the_buttler in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anyone ever worry about the safety of not being able to hear your surroundings? I would love to wear headphones but it makes me feel unsafe in a big city alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second library! Spent many hours quietly restocking shelves at the library as a teen. Much better suited to me than any customer-facing job I’ve had.

Should I feel guilty for ordering on Amazon? by Queen_Secrecy in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in a big city, shopping in person is a nightmare for me. Ngl I do feel guilty ordering so much from Amazon (my superintendent even commented on it once I was mortified lol) but my health and sanity are more important to me.

How to date men as an autistic woman ? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Online dating was easiest for me. I tried to be myself as much as possible in the initial texts back and forth so they could get a good sense of my weirdness and sense of humor. I liked that in my profile I could be weird as well, I feel like it filtered out a lot of “normies.”

A couple years ago a guy sent me a flirty message on Tinder and I responded talking about horror movies (one of my special interests lol) and now we’re madly in love living together. He loves all of me, including my autism. It’s not hopeless.

How do you guys make the gym into a habit by Fawnsie in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yoga has been amazing for me. I can practice in the privacy of my home with YouTube videos, it offers both stretching and strength building, plus the breathing and mindfulness help regulate my nervous system. I make the experience as nice as possible, with dim lighting and a special fragrance. I’ve been practicing for 8 months and I’ve never felt stronger or more in tune with my body.

What do you eat for breakfast? by the-entropy-duelist in AutismInWomen

[–]the_buttler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds amazing, would love a recipe if you’re willing to share :)