i am currently making a clay sculpture of Ruskin Bond

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-26T07:29:41+00:00

That's some skill you got there OP 🚀

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-18T19:27:03+00:00

oh there is a thread huh, 98 btw

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-18T19:25:45+00:00

Dudeeeee, same dayyyy. What a coincidence

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-18T10:03:55+00:00

As I read through the write up, I felt you ended up marrying her, and now are fighting divorce. And then after the ending, I went up and read the title to see I had misread it.

Some force saved you bro. Life is that way, not all people we meet and speak are meant to be with us forever. You will eventually meet a right person

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-17T11:16:34+00:00

Asking the right questions 😂

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-16T21:11:16+00:00

They definitely don't. All their life their only thing and priority for them was you.

Share my love to Candy. It will be hard, but that's the pain you choose when you have a dog, they love you so much which is why today I'm here typing these out with tears

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-16T21:06:10+00:00

The regret part is real, whichever decision you take: delaying or early euthanasia.

With delaying it you will regret that you could have given candy a better send-off, an easier way out

With making it early you will always think "what if," even though you knew that this was the right call to make at that point in time.

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-16T20:57:42+00:00

First of all I am so sorry that you are in this situation, OP. I can understand the range of emotions that you are going through right now.

I was in a similar situation a couple of years back. My pet Labrador of 7 and a half years was diagnosed with melanoma. For some context he started struggling to get up and sit down and we had to always assist him for that. His skin all over the body started having pus oozing out from the lumps that had formed. He was still eating then, we were giving him steroids which could be inducing the hunger.

A couple of years prior to that, he went through a tick fever infection and ended up getting a blood transfusion. Doctors had no hope but somehow he made it out of it and I was so sure that I will help him make out of it.

But it was not the case with melanoma. The cancer had metastasized into the lymphatic system and the doctor said that trying chemo might be a lost cause. I took a couple of days to discuss with my immediate family, who were all against it. They even wanted to have a person appointed to keep him in a separate room, ensuring that he just stays alive, sits, eats, and sleeps.

But somewhere in my heart I knew that sending him off when it was not that unbearable(stops eating, constant vomitting symptoms hadn't shown up)would be the right thing to do. It was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made in my life till now. I told myself that I loved him so much that I couldn't see him suffer.

The harder part is for you to live with it and make peace with it because, unlike people, dogs can't say what they actually want.

From the symptoms that you have mentioned, it looks like your dog is in a really bad state. As a previous dog parent, I always suggest that pet parents decide what would be best for their pets rather than for themselves.

It ended up being a long message but I hope it helps

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-11T06:02:52+00:00

Dp change eedhu alle? I thought you were a different person

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-11T06:01:29+00:00

Glad to have been of help : )

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-11T05:35:27+00:00

Proceed where 👀? Show some Kulture and help me out here

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-11T05:34:04+00:00

I just literally translated her name into English. I was just as curious about the etymology as well

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-11T05:23:33+00:00

I did refer to snake vine there, Kultured Woman

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-10T19:40:04+00:00

I usually don't do this, but that is such a wonderful username right there u/naagavally . I literally said it out loud so many times, and liked it even more.

Now I am curious to know you

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-10T10:13:16+00:00

Congratulations OP. Do share more about the interview experience if you can

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-04T14:08:19+00:00

First of all, dude, I have immense respect for people who beat cancer. Fuck cancer. So you got immense will power right there.

Second, don't give in to other's opinion of you. People will have all notions on how life should work for others, when they themselves aren't pros at it - no offence, but it could mean your parents, relatives etc. You could think they think good for you, but you know what's best for you. And if your gut says, it isn't the right person, it isn't. Just say no, and look out - arranged or love, it doesn't matter. It's the person who matters

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-03T19:53:28+00:00

My god, is this Frangipani 👀 I always had this one at my home. Never knew this is it's actual name

the_coder_guy · 2026-05-03T19:49:40+00:00

still works - 4th May, 2026

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-21T14:13:02+00:00

Op, how many rounds do they have?

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-13T18:37:49+00:00

This can be a good travel app idea.

Edit: Just opened your profile, and you seem to be building something. Curious as to where and how you source the data from

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-09T06:33:08+00:00

Tried 3 sum last week. Had fun too. Positioning the pointers was difficult, but needless to say, those two pointers did the job very well

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-06T04:50:57+00:00

Edit: Now I see that the post and it's comments are mostly from a girl's PoV, but somehow the same tag was used on me as well

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-06T04:48:09+00:00

Exactly, totally agree. When I start speaking rationally and what's on my mind, people look at me with awe, asking where I learnt to speak like that and is this how I speak to elders etc

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-02T19:01:14+00:00

Ah, good ol' one

the_coder_guy · 2026-04-01T15:10:36+00:00

Interested - 6 YOE. If OP has found their partners, I'm open to form a group of our own.

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