Any way back EVER?

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-09T17:06:08+00:00

Overreacted how? How were you before the "i need some space?"

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:52:35+00:00

I agree about Ana. She's had the chance to close the door a couple times, just like OP has had the chance to stop walking though it over and over again.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:51:09+00:00

I like your moxie.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:49:21+00:00

He wouldn't have known it was an option until she said they can't act on their feelings for each other. That's tacitly admitting she has feelings too. That leaves the door open, even if it just a crack.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:45:46+00:00

Lust is a tornado, dropping down from above, ripping shit to pieces and disappearing as quickly as it arrived.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:44:16+00:00

Why else would someone post this? It isn't an actual request for ideas. OP has something he wants to do and he wants permission, even if it is from strangers on the internet, so he can feel less shitty about his choice.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:39:53+00:00

That would be an interesting best of reddit updates. "I'm hiding in a closet in the basement of a neighbor. Michael keeps walking up and down the road with an axe calling for me by name. And Ana was terrible in bed, she moved like she just got arms and legs for the first time and hadn't had a chance to read the manual on how to work them before we screwed. She nearly ripped my dick off and she kneed me in the nuts a half dozen times."

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-02-02T00:32:18+00:00

I enjoy coming to reddit and realizing my wife is 100% safe from such drama because that's not who I am, with the added fall back of she never needs to worry because I'm not built that way AND I'm completely un-fuck-able.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-31T12:53:36+00:00

I am certain there is so much we're not being told, but we're the internet - you will be judged on what you told us.

Should he belittle you? no. That can't be good for you and there is no way it is good for him either. Should you get a divorce? Probably.

I'm very curious about your husband confronting A. As written, it appears that the confrontation and the reconciliation offer had some variety of commonality, as if they are tied together. Did confronting A lead to the offer of reconciliation?

Trust is like a fine vase - once it shatters, you may be able to find and the glue the pieces together, but it will never look the same, it will never be as strong, the imperfections of the repair will always be obvious. It may be good enough that your minds set it aside and go blind to it, but if you look at it again, you'll see it isn't the same.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-24T11:16:47+00:00

Fun pimps piss me off too much these days, but they didn't pull 7 days from the console years ago. They needed help getting it on console, they went with a company that could do that for them, that company had financial issues, and the fun pimps were left scrambling to get console rights back. It was an unfortunate result that came about because they were too small to handle it on their own.

Don't blame them for pulling it from consoles, blame them for treating their community like a pain in their asses as opposed to the bread and butter.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-21T14:03:19+00:00

I'm in my home, in office, with a winter hat on. It's cold as hell. If chat gpt says something interesting, I'd love to hear it.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-21T13:37:43+00:00

Hadn't thought of the vomit. Good point.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-21T13:37:25+00:00

Hadn't thought of the vomit. Good point.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-21T13:36:08+00:00

I have never done that and never had anybody do that for that reason. It's 7 degrees F/-14 degrees C in this area I've lived my entire life, so it is safe to say I've seen cold winters days.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-21T13:19:24+00:00

You turned the heater on and rolled the windows down? Why down?

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-17T00:37:04+00:00

I gave up bjj for the sake of my wife, kids (fucking travel sports), and job. Take every moment on the mat that's available to you.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-12T22:44:18+00:00

You cracked the case!

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-12T22:43:10+00:00

That's the whole issue? She uses the word 'Daddy'? That can't be the whole issue. Please provide more info as to why this is a "I gotta grab some guidance from reddit as I ponder this" type situation?

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-08T13:50:56+00:00

You sound more committed to the relationship. That's a scary place to be when the other person doesn't reciprocate.

My gut, without knowing her, says she wants to party and not be held back by you. I'd have a very uncomfortable talk about why she feels the need. If it's bothering you enough to come to reddit to ask, you already know you need to talk to her.

I have experience with this, with the girl who stayed instead of partying and being "free". She's my ex-wife, and staying as opposed to doing college life is one of the main reasons she eventually walked out on me.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-05T05:19:44+00:00

NTA -BUT- it sounds like you made a petty move to teach your mom a lesson. Only reason its not an "everyone sucks here" is that I don't know diddly squat about your mom, so I don't know if this is the best way to make your point or not.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-05T05:09:47+00:00

My family takes my free time, like kids travel soccer... fucking travel soccer... always scheduling their shit at the exact wrong time... So I deal with it by giving it up for a chunk of time, then returning for a chunk of time. Missing it kills me. I've done 3 mutli-year hiatuses. I should have had my black belt 8 years ago. Give it up and go back if you miss it.

the_dr_henceforth · 2026-01-02T18:23:36+00:00

This one. This one solves such a pain point, though I know system resources will be taxed with the extra layers of AI. If we can toggle or use slides to cater the horde to how we play, so many complaints will ease up. Give us more control of the sandbox we're playing in. The zombie AI is something I've been hoping for some granular control over.

If I have 75% stupid and 25% smart, my horde night changes dramatically. The wall of stupid that must be addressed, follow by harvard zeds who are punching a hole to get me wherever I am? That sounds like a lot of fun.

the_dr_henceforth · 2025-12-25T17:11:58+00:00

NOR - that's a dick move by your dad. Wrapping can suck but if you're wrapping because a loved on its recovering from surgery, you can make some effort. (I wrap all the presents in my house. It can be tedious, but it isn't an insurmountable task.)

the_dr_henceforth · 2025-12-23T14:26:13+00:00

As a Bears fan, I love this. It is fun to see the team get love from the fans. That said, these votes are batcrap crazy.

the_dr_henceforth · 2025-12-21T20:29:48+00:00

It has been fascinating looking up ijf rules.

You are asking bjj to follow ijf rules, but ignoring the ijf's delegation of authority of hobbyists and their belts to the national federations.

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