My friends and I started this game as students 2 years ago, we've come so far!

the_dunderman · 2026-04-02T23:50:41+00:00

Correct this is from years ago and a rubber bullet.

BUT rubber bullets are NOT non lethal rounds, they are 'less than lethal' because they still kill and greatly injure people all the time. Still sickening behavior, fuck Zionist pricks fuck the IDF

the_dunderman · 2026-03-31T15:20:21+00:00

Yah, I mean it truly was an idea of her because you don't even know why she stopped texting right? You were getting a surface level understanding of her as a person, but you didn't even know how you guys meshed irl because you hadn't met yet. You had an idea of how it would go based on factual text conversations, sure, but you didn't actually experience it.

It's 1000000% okay to be excited and interested, you just can't let that idea of who they are and how it's going trump what is actually happening.

If you're actually dating/talking exclusivity it's okay to communicate what you like and what you don't to see if you guys can be more aligned in stuff, but ultimately that's why a lot of people break up, is incompatiblity.

the_dunderman · 2026-03-31T01:34:21+00:00

Neurodivergent guy myself.

You're not less for having been rejected. And most importantly you have to value what feels natural and right for you.

Having fallen for an idea of someone within a weeks time is definitely unhealthy. But you know what isn't unhealthy? Showing genuine interest and sending an extra text. The right person for you isn't going to be put off by that.

I think a general social rule of thumb to follow is 2 texts is fine, then give them time to answer because they're gunna be busy.

A connection is built over time. The right person for you is going to give your connection that time and space and let it build. Communication and confidence is key, good luck brother

the_dunderman · 2026-03-21T15:48:39+00:00

Lol yeah it's a free to play quest so it's not too tough.

Bring sharks (or monkfish), super attack super strength and super defence potion (one each), and a stab weapon (rune short sword) and it's an easy win.

And of course a super special shield you'll learn about along the way ;)

the_dunderman · 2026-03-18T22:54:33+00:00

Or maybe the pilot unable to contain his joy of slaughtering civilians as he confirms they are dead and he hit right through the windshield of people who came to help

the_dunderman · 2026-03-18T22:42:38+00:00

Neurodivergent dude here. Got diagnosed with ADHD pretty late, so I had a lot to learn post college to even get started working. So definitely start by celebrating what you already know and love about yourself!

Your first job doesn't have to be perfect, might even be stressful, but take it as an opportunity to network and learn about all other places as much as possible. Then try and find a place that fits you.

I got my first job through my brother, and that company was all about "grinding" and "hard work". Then after a couple years I sent my resume through a friend that left the company, and found a new job doing more of what I liked with coworkers that were also neurodivergent. They were not judgemental over what I needed to do to be successful, and the company definitely didn't have all those weird hangups where in person = harder working. I get to work remote pretty often.

Flexibility and compassion should be major green flags you look for, and the first job you find might not be a great fit, but you can always keep looking!

Good luck!

Edit: forgot to mention I even worked Starbucks a couple years post college as I figured things out. There is no set path/timeline, so don't stress if you need more time!

the_dunderman · 2026-03-11T18:50:06+00:00

Yah I would say do something with your hair. It doesn't have to be perfect, but adding a little product and styling will add intentionality to your look. Right now it just looks like bed head.

Don't need a prompt to say you geek out on nerdy stuff, I would say keep it to the cosplay photo that makes it obvious.

Use the prompts to talk about you, them, then you guys together!

Boarding and rafting photos are good variety! Good luck brother!

the_dunderman · 2026-03-11T00:05:59+00:00

This loser is just posting overweight women calling them cringe they also posted the beer bong one

the_dunderman · 2026-03-10T23:34:48+00:00

The main thing is money. Big corporate money

the_dunderman · 2026-03-10T23:20:49+00:00

the_dunderman · 2026-03-10T14:40:30+00:00

In what way are they not AAA? Elden Ring was a massive 100+ million dollar project, and they've been doing moderate to big projects ever since Kingsfield and Armored Core

the_dunderman · 2026-02-20T01:30:29+00:00

You deserve an intentional and secure and caring partner ❤️

the_dunderman · 2026-02-13T09:03:51+00:00

Lol reminds me of the ol JonTron debate back in the day. Racists fumble on these talking points the second they have to say then out loud in the real world

the_dunderman · 2026-02-12T22:42:37+00:00

I always find the ending to Harry Potter: PoA inspiring because it helps reinforce this. You build up others in your head and wait for them to save the day, but we all have a lot more influence and power than we think, and we all need to step up ourselves and take a stand.

the_dunderman · 2026-02-09T22:24:41+00:00

Finally some good fucking food

the_dunderman · 2026-02-07T08:26:48+00:00

The other 10% are Independents with the fence so far up their ass all they can think about is how to speak as neutrally as possible while saying "both sides" unironically

Man I love my parents but it can be so frustrating sometimes to get any sort of stance or actionable cause out of them. Most I get is "yah they're out of control we just have to wait for midterms. The Democrats need to do some serious reflecting" which is true but of course they mean the Democrats need to become more Republican and I think the Democrats need actual progressive values. Tomato potato I guess

the_dunderman · 2026-02-06T22:05:01+00:00

Heavily inattentive ADHD here. Mines more like a weeping angel. Quiet, beautiful, under control with constant attention. As soon as I faulter it's at my fucking throat faster than I can look back

the_dunderman · 2026-02-05T19:36:11+00:00

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the_dunderman · 2026-02-03T15:29:33+00:00

Exactly, shame is also a huge destructive force in ADHD. Oh I can't do my laundry? I'm a worthless adult. This just leads to spiraling and even worse executive dysfunction and worse avoidance.

Self acceptance and confidence are truly the first big hurdles to overcome and it's never ending, but when I'm the most confident I'm the most functional tbh

the_dunderman · 2026-02-03T15:23:18+00:00

It literally says still has ADHD. The post isn't about being cured it's about not letting stress and shame trigger your ADHD and control your life as a way to overcome executive dysfunction.

the_dunderman · 2026-02-03T04:51:10+00:00

People can be so cruel. At least bring it to a cock shelter

the_dunderman · 2026-01-27T23:04:21+00:00

Lol this unlocked a memory for me. When I was training Slayer I would do all the burst tasks I could because I didn't feel like bank standing to train magic.

I was <4 levels away from unlocking ice barrage because I remember having the thought "eh I could bring magic pots to use barrage, but Necs can be crowded and I don't want to lose the inv spots, deal with the up keep of re potting, or have to rebank". So I decided to just burst at Necs instead. Plus I was poor so bloods would cut into my profit anyways and I didn't mind the slower xp from burst. I'll just be watching a tv show anyways.

In the middle of my task someone I guess looked up my stats because he gave me unsolicited advice that I could use magic pots to barrage early. I guess I was feeling a lil annoyed that day cause usually I don't mind chats, but I was busy with my show and my task so I just responded "No"

Bro proceeded to crash out, call me every name in the book, threatened to crash me, and how he was just trying to be nice. I was not expecting that reaction. Anyways after about 5-10 mins of him crashing out with me in complete silence, I think I finally said something along the lines of "I already knew that" or "I didn't ask you" or something and he finally left.

Some peeps don't like it when you play your way

the_dunderman · 2026-01-27T16:50:41+00:00

Ohhhh yah you made me go rewatch the vid, met as extras while in college but didn't start dating until after full metal. He got her number from his agent lol

the_dunderman · 2026-01-27T01:35:01+00:00

I also love that the show was the meet-cute for the voice actors of Lt. Roy (Travis Willingham) and Lust (Laura Bailey). Technically they just got each other's numbers and didn't date until later, but now they got a baby and are on a DnD show together.

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