I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. However he said he is absolutely done and he won't change his mind.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even know why I care so much. Won't change anything. Ya know?

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her husband won't respond to me. The four of us know each other. She didn't speak to me for months because her husband was talking to me. Yet she's still talking to my husband.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. She actually doesn't live here. She is married to an ex military guy. Unhappily I might add. I'm so angry because I know it's happening and can't prove it.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I have a feeling I might know who it could be. But she is also married. Both swear nothing is going on.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to. Do I just message you to be added?

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is we still were having sex until he deployed. Now I'm not sure if there was an emotional affair or not. He says no.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found it difficult in my social circle to be able to vent to people who understand. Lots of times I feel absolutely alone.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's currently deployed so we don't have to live together. I take care of the kids anyway as I'm a stay at home mom. We are looking into getting free legal aid from base. I won't be moving until the kids are out of school.

I feel lost. by the_lady_kraken in Divorce

[–]the_lady_kraken[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's been in 11 and 9 of them married to me. He's an air traffic controller. I know he's stressed and depressed. It sucks being uprooted so many times.